Thank you! I certainly understand the disengagement for family life. It's beyond important for you AND your family.
Hell. I even disengaged from motorcycles for family life. There were quite a few years where I only had a dirt bike that I could enjoy a couple hours at a time, and even a few years (a very few) with no motorcycles. My baby brother let me ride his a lot in the days before he had a family!
Goals and straegies are great as long as I don't let them become 'the boss'.