Marriage

Hello guys good day all, and happy new year in advance. Wishing you guys all the best in life.

There is a feeling marriage gives to couples when they get together. Sometimes, youths who are under twenty two are always affected with marriage fever, some don't just know how to go about it, so they just run into marriage without any proper arrangements or advice.
But most of them pass through and live happily while some get stuck and regrets takes over their lifes, they start working and struggling at old age instead of at their early youth days.

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I won't lie, I was once a victim of this things, a time when I wish I had my own family at my age without anybody help just me and my family.
I was chucked up with it and it almost got to me still a voice echo in my head and ask me "what if things go wrong and not the way I planned?" If I get married now, what happens to my future?" All this questions keep going throw my mind and I began to think, what if the person isn't the right one, what if I get married to her due to pressure and make a life time mistake.

Throw out that moment I became emotionally weak, because I was thinking both positive and negative effects of my actions. But I finally made up my mind to let it go and focus on getting myself a good and great future then after that I can think of getting married.

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Seriously, I think marriage fever is a sickness. Due to family or parents pressure, most times its always attached to the first son of the family or the only son when it becames very strong it when you're the only son, that's when it becames stronger, and at the end it might lead to disaster.

Thank you for reading..

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