The issue of marriage has been a topic of discussion for a long time. The fear that has been troubling people’s minds for a long time. There are always numerous topics and controversies surrounding marriage, largely because people view it from different perspectives.
You will hear some people say “marriage is the best thing that has ever happened to them,” and to some others, you will have them say “marriage has been their worst experience ever”. Which of the paths are we to thread?
There was a chart I read a few years ago. It says that marriage is heavenly when you are with the right person, and marriage is hell when you are with the wrong person. So with this, I think the results are getting narrowed down.
Making a choice
Making a choice is actually one of the best things that could ever happen, and it also could be one of the nightmares one could experience. I realize that we have the chance to pick only one person in our existence, and that’s our spouse.
You can’t pick the family background you want to come from. You can’t also pick the kind of parent you want, you just find yourself among your siblings, and even giving birth, you can’t pick the kind of child you want. All of these are just something predestined upon us in which we might not have a choice to make, but we are granted the choice of selecting a life partner.
This is something I will say must have instilled a lot of fears in human nature. The fact that you are the one to decide the kind of life you want to live with someone till death do you part. The mystery of finding out who is who. The pressure of striking a compatibility and also having to battle with understanding each other for a lifetime.
“Marriage is sweet,” someone once said to me. Then I asked, “Why won’t you tell me about the sour part of it?” She smiled…
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I know every marriages have there own challenges but choosing a wrong guy to marry is not good. Yes, have heard some people saying marriage is the best thing that happened to them, and vice versa just like you said but the people who said marriage is the best thing that happens to them will never tell us what they're facing in their marriage with there husband. To me, it's important to choose the right spouse than choosing the wrong spouse that will make us later regret our actions.
Well said. It’s all down to the selection. And I think with prayers and patience the battle should be well fought. Thanks the the contribution
You see life partner, we have the window to choose ànd if you choose and end up choosing the wrong one, your life on earth will be hell.
Marriage has gotten to a level were everyone has to be careful before marriage.