It is not easy to love with the brain, I mean love they say is blind. Once you genuinely fall in love with a person, you overlook some soft red flags because it's her or him: would give excuses for their mistakes.

But loving with the heart but taking your brain along is better. You now when to call your partner out to correct their mistakes, express how and why you didn't like a thing.

Low key, the balance is not that hard. Love yourself first, love with your brain and heart, that way you wouldn't accept things you don't like all in the name of love. Love is not what we used to know it as because somethings have been hyped beyond necessary and the outcome (pain and regret) is what people talk about. Men are scum, ladies are gold diggers, how and why was that a conclusion ?.

Woooo... This love matter can be crazy at times bro😅.