I also used to be judgmental because I would never do a thing, so I had this attitude of judging those that did without knowing the reason behind their attitude.
I almost argue with the person that told me the first time.
We can't really know everything about us; sometimes we need genuine people to hold the mirror for us.
Yeah, that's quite right and if we have people that care about us to inform us of when we're acting out, that's truly worthwhile. It's something we as humans could do by default- being judgey. But curtailing it makes our social life much better.🌺