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Ladies, would you like to be married to an abroad husband or nah?
My answer - NO
I have never been married not to talk of getting married to someone who lives in a different country.
So, I wouldn't understand some Ladies that prefers marrying someone who lives in a different country.
The person comes once in two or three years to visit, perform quick husband duties, and go back.
If I married a soldier, I could understand.
I don't think I would love my husband to stay in a different state, even in the same country, especially as newly married couples.
Some ladies don't want to accept the truth that they can't deal with such situations but still agree to go through it.
There is this friend of mine then in university who married a guy living abroad.
Before the wedding, she discussed it with me and I told her it wasn't a good idea, except if her papers her ready to travel with him.
She told me how he promised to bring her over after a year.
I can't force her to agree to my opinion besides I know that feeling and situation.
I believe she had already made up her mind, she was only discussing it with me just for hearing sake.
She got married in our 200 level and gave birth, she was still in the country but stopped wearing her wedding ring and deleted all her wedding photos online.
The response she gave me when I asked her what happened wasn't cool.
This same thing recently happened to a secondary school mate of mine.
That I was even doubting that she was married.
If not for a congratulatory message I sent to her, I couldn't have recalled.
The baby girl deleted all her wedding photos on Facebook, leaving her recent photos without a wedding ring.
Igbo people love doing something like that a lot, and that's why it is known that the festive season is time to mingle and quickly marry abroad husband 😂😂😂
Most Igbo men have pride, and I think that scares them from taking some women(their wives) to stay with them abroad.
Because over there, women are first considered and can easily control the house.
The old mentality is still with them, the mentality of treating their wives as slaves.
Well, I don't really know.
What's your take on this?
Your opinions are appreciated.
Thank you very much for stopping by 😊
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Nne, which igbo man is looking for your trouble? 🤔
😂😂😂😂😂😂
How?
Does this write up looks like something stimulated by trouble?
Yes o😅
Hmmm
Okay oo
You actually made me laugh because someone still said something about this issue recently. I don't like long distance relationships so it's a no for me.
I can't be here as a lady while my husband is thousands of miles away from me.
😂😂😂
Thank you very much dear
@graat thinks otherwise
Lol, Its alright. You have won
For me, I think I'll maybe be able to handle of being the wife of someone serious living abroad. Because In my deep thought Love is stronger than anything. In fact, after that it must really be complicated especially if the distance lasts for years 😏
Big Hugs 💜
Alright dear 😊
Thank you very much for stopping by.