If there is one thing I have been doing a lot this period is traveling, last year I traveled around so well, not out of Nigeria though but to different States in Nigeria. Most times I have this urge to travel because I do not like staying in the same area for a long time, I grew up around a particular area and spent all my life there, my Elementary School, High School, and even Tertiary Education.
I started traveling out of my state when I was done with my Tertiary Education. The first time I traveled, It was fun and I loved every bit of it. I think it was because it was my first time, so the excitement covered the stress and everything I encountered that day.
When it comes to packing, I am sure I am terrible at this because I do not know how to pack, I always have a full box even when the journey isn’t going to last for a long time. There was a certain time I was going for a short travel and when I came out of my room with my bag, the first question my mom asked was “How long are you staying again?” I said “A week”, She gave me that look an African mother will give to you when you are out of your mind.. I knew it was because of how big my bag was, she had to help me repack…
When she was doing this, I was shocked I didn’t need 40% of what I was carrying in my bag😂
When I was posted for my NYSC that was when I realized I didn’t like long-distance journeys, the journey was so long and we were meant to spend less than 24 hours on the road, as I was leaving the South to the North. I honestly didn’t find it funny.
When the journey started there were a few times we made a stop to either get food or use the toilet. We even had a breakdown of the vehicle so we spent more than 24hrs on the road, I left Port Harcourt at 11am and got to Kano by 9pm, I just didn’t find it fun. I realized immediately after I got to the camp, that I became sick due to the long distance of travel. I saw many corp members enjoying the view from traveling, but not me. I think I was crying inside because I didn’t want to embarrass myself.
With this, I realized that I didn’t like the stress that comes with traveling. I got to feed my eyes with lots of things happening on the road but I said to myself that I wouldn’t want to embark on a long distance again instead I would prefer it short distance because I can’t cope with staying on transit for that long. It makes me feel sick and weak.
After my three weeks camping in the North, I was to return home but this time, I tried to make my journey short, I traveled by road from Kano to Abuja, and no matter how I wanted this short, I still spent a long time on the road. Kano is extremely big so leaving Kano to another state takes 3hrs most times. So most times I spend a long time traveling from Kano to Abuja but that can not be compared to the time I spent when traveling from Kano to Port Harcourt.
Anything to make my journey a bit shorter and more comfortable. So I traveled from Kano to Abuja then I used a flight to go back to Port Harcourt, this made the journey easier for me, and I did not encounter any sickness afterwards.
I was able to realize that I only enjoy traveling when the distance is short for instance, from Port Harcourt to a nearby State like Bayelsa State. I do not think I will ever want to travel a long distance where I spend almost 24 hours on the road.
All images used are mine except otherwise stated
Thanks for stopping by💕
Cheers 🥂
Posted Using InLeo Alpha
We are same on excessive packing , lolz
I have been trying to curtail this habit but it's worst now that I have kids
My husband always get scared seeing my luggages when we are set to travel for holiday
Funny thing is that I will end up using max 50% of the those luggages...I am learning to sticking on necessities only if possible and yes,short journey is fun on road trip...I dread long journey on the road. The experience hasn't been pleasant especially with my nausea
@sagarkothari88 vote
Long distance journeys always come with nausea. I wonder how most people enjoy it.
I am also learning how to stick to necessities too😂😂 we will do just fine.
Thank you so much ma’am☺️☺️
I am yet to experience this long distance travelling of a thing. I have been hearing lots of stories that accompanies this long distance.
But if there is anything I am yet to experience is travelling on air, it sounds weird but believe me, I am so scared of height that even the second floor I am living presently, it's by the grace of God.
Wow, I understand, my friend is also scared of height, whenever we are about to take off, she would grab you so tight. Well I am scared of water so that’s fine☺️☺️ I just hope we get over our phobia.
Thank you for stopping by ☺️
I just hope so
Thanks for having me.
That's a long time staying on the bus, Ive never traveled that far before, but I know it would have been very stressful.
As for packing, I barely pack things when I travel, most times I end up leaving some important things behind all because I hate stress
Ohhh, I understand, my sister would always forget important things like charger and the rest.
What I do is whenever I am traveling, I put my important things like my charger, phone, AirPods and the rest in a separate bag those are usually the last things I calm down to arrange.
Mine is hate holding a bag or anything when travelling so I put everything in the box and put my card and some money in my pocket, I think that's why I forget most things
😂😂😂😂
I like long trips when I can drive my vehicle. Traveling long distances by bus can be quite annoying and unpleasant, even more so if you have problems on the journey. But the pleasure of traveling will always be present in all circumstances. #dreemerforlife
You know I don't like flying any more at all for lots of reasons. Biggest of course is the environmental impact, but I have flown hundreds of times over the years. Helicopter journeys to oil platforms, I was even in two plane crashes in Africa! But am still here. Yeah short journeys are cool and I love going on boats...
Wow, 2 plane crash, I’m so sorry about that, so you have phobia for flying now??
In the South, there are some places you would need a boat to go to.
I'm starting to believe that the inability to pack light is a woman's curse because I will never learn lol.
I had a point in my life where I loved long road trips but these days even the short trips from Ph to Yenagoa have become quite stressful. I don't trust the roads anymore.
I don't think we ladies will love to park only necessities, infact everything is important to us.
No where is safe again. Well we just need to travel either ways. Thank you for stopping by
I enjoy traveling on a smooth cool road😅😂😂 but funny we don't have that here in Nigeria.
And when it comes to packing things, I often carry things I wouldn't need for that period of time.
There is no smooth road that’s why it’s frustrating😂😂
Exactly 💯😂😂😂
Long distance travels can be really stressful but thank God for sleep. As for me, I prefer long-distance trips.
She said thank God for sleep😂😂
😂😂😂
I don’t know why I find it funny when people hate king journeys because I actually love it😂
I can stay in a moving vehicle for 24 hours and counting
I can also related with packing, African mothers can even pack a whole bed in your bag and it’ll enter😂
Afterwards they’ll just be letting you know you don’t need half of what you’ve packed
Passing through from dreemport
#dreemerforlife