• ¡Recuerdo que un día les dije que era lo que quería y me dijeron que eso no! Que eso jamás me iba a generar dinero o que eso no frecuentaba en mi país, pero eso era lo que yo quería estudiar y era Psicología, bueno después de ver sus reacciones y darme cuenta de que no era lo que yo quisiera, era lo que ellos querían que yo fuera me sentí muy mal porque no era algo que me iba a hacer feliz en ningún momento de mi vida y se lo comente a una tía lo que estaba pasando y me dijo algo que es el lema más bonito que le digo a las personas que les pasa lo mismo "Serás una profesional frustrada, y uno una profesional feliz", ese día todo cambio, pues era como me dijo ella, tienes que hacerlo por amor y no por obligación.
• Ellos después al darse cuenta de que eso no era lo que yo quería no me presionaron más , pues solo dejaron de importarse por mis estudios, hoy en día soy yo la que decido que estudiar y por todo el tiempo perdido durante dos años que me gradúe, hoy en día si puedo decir con orgullo y pasión que es lo que quiero estudiar por mí y para mí, con ayuda de mi tío @jesusalejos estoy pronto a iniciar las inscripciones en una universidad cercana a la ciudad y estudiaré Desarrollo Humano una carrera que no muchos entienden, pero si le prestas atención e investiga sobre que trata te ayudara mucho para tu futuro y tu misma vida emocional y eso es lo que yo quiero lograr, por mí y para mí para ser feliz yo, y no hacerlo para complacer a los demás.

• A lo mejor todos en algún momento han pasado lo mismo, y que al igual que yo por temor no decimos ni demostramos nuestros sentimientos ni nuestras metas claras, pero a veces nadie te va a comprender si no eres tu mismo, los padres están para ayudarnos claramente esta, pero nosotros cuando crecemos también debemos tomar nuestras propias decisiones y ellos comprender y apoyarnos en lo que queremos lograr...

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• When we are children our parents always want the best for us and when we grow up too, but what happens when we grow up? We have to make our own decisions, we have to create our own path and know if that decision we make will help us make better people in our future.

• Today I want to explain my case, and tell you what sometimes we do not tell anyone, when I graduated from high school my uncle and my grandmother wanted me to be CICPC a body of officials that in my country circulates a lot, they took that decision without consulting me, then I realize and for fear of talking they decided to definitive that profession that I obviously did not want or interested me, but why they take this decision? Well I was afraid to say what I wanted to study , that was my mistake , not knowing what I wanted and they obviously wanted me to study something fast without wasting time and something that they liked not me .

• I remember that one day I told them what I wanted and they told me no, that it was never going to make me money or that I didn't go to school in my country, but that was what I wanted to study and that was what I wanted to study. psychology Well, after seeing their reactions and realizing that it was not what I wanted, it was what they wanted me to be, I felt very bad because it was not something that was going to make me happy at any time in my life and I told an aunt what I was going through and she told me something that is the most beautiful motto that I say to people who are going through the same thing. "You will be a frustrated professional, and one a happy professional." That day everything changed because it was like she told me, you have to do it out of love and not out of obligation.

• They later realized that this was not what I wanted and did not pressure me more, they just stopped caring about my studies, today I am the one who decide what to study and for all the time lost during two years that I graduated, today if I can say with pride and passion that is what I want to study for me and for me, with the help of my uncle @jesusalejos I am soon to start enrollment in a university near the city and I will study Human Development a career that not many understand but if you pay attention and research what it is about it will help you a lot for your future and your own emotional life and that is what I want to achieve, for me and for me to be happy me, and not to do it to please others.

• Maybe everyone at some point has gone through the same thing, and that like me for fear we do not say or show our feelings or our clear goals but sometimes no one will understand you if you are not yourself, parents are to help us clearly this but when we grow up we must also make our own decisions and they understand and support us in what we want to achieve...

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