La tolerancia se perdió.../ Catarsis

in Catarsislast year (edited)

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Hola amigos reciban todos un feliz año, hoy vengo aprovechar esta ventana para expresar mis ideas y experiencias.

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Comienzo contando que el año pasado viví una experiencia no muy grata que me dejo algo traumada, de lo cual he aprendido y sigo aprendiendo de esto.
segun lo vivido me pude dar cuenta que ser sincero y directo no siempre es bueno, porque te trae muchas enemistades, nadie quiere que le digan sus errores y menos directamente en su cara, yo cometí ese error y me gane muchos enemigos, no quiere decir que está mal lo que hice pero hay que estar preparados para la reacción de la gente.

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Hello friends, everyone have a happy new year, today I come to take advantage of this window to express my ideas and experiences.
I begin by saying that last year I No a not very pleasant experience that left me somewhat traumatized, from which I have learned and continue to learn from this.
Based on what I experienced, I was able to realize that being sincere and direct is not always good, because it brings you a lot of enmity, no one wants to be told their mistakes and even less so directly to their face, I made that mistake and made many enemies, it doesn't mean What I did is wrong but you have to be prepared for people's reaction.

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Reconozco que fui atrevida al decirle unas cuantas verdades a una persona influyente y este hizo que muchos me odiaran, sufrí mucho, pedí perdón y quise que la amistad siguiera siendo igual per descubrí que la gente no perdona que le digan las verdades en su cara, hoy perdí amistades y aprendí que si quieres evitar conflictos y mantener amistades es mejor callar, porque la tolerancia se ha perdido hoy todo el mundo bloquea por cualquier tontería y hay quienes no bloquean pero te dejan en visto. Son muchas cosas las que deseo expresar pero por ahora concluyo, hoy no hay tolerancia, se perdió junto con el perdón.

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I admit that I was daring to tell a few truths to an influential person and he made many hate me, I suffered a lot, I asked for forgiveness and I wanted the friendship to remain the same but I discovered that people do not forgive being told the truth to their face, Today I lost friendships and I learned that if you want to avoid conflicts and maintain friendships it is better to remain silent, because tolerance has been lost today everyone blocks for any nonsense and there are those who do not block but leave you in the dark. There are many things I want to express but for now I conclude today there is no tolerance, it was lost along with forgiveness.

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Bella, mantener una amistad y no ser sinceros con ellos, implicaría que no eres su amiga, ellos debieron pensar en eso, por otra parte, es bueno que les dijeras las verdades, el tema tal vez sea la forma o manera en la que lo hiciste, a veces hay que tener mucho tacto para ello, yo he aprendido y sé a quienes les puede decir las cosas y quienes no y también como decirlas, un abrazo grandote para ti.

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Lamentable escuchar esto, a veces no es lo que se dice, es la forma, especialmente si se trata de verdades.