yeah i 100% agree, i think my wife struggles a little bit with that more than me, whats almost certain for me is the NT school is gradually leaving him behind, there less and less contents for him to fully grasp, so the new school would have less content more adapted to his needs and for him to fully grasp and be less frustrated. But again totally again we can never know and as parents we just have to try to do our best with this decisions and work at home and do our parts.

Thank you very much for your insights and taking the time to read i really really appreciate it!