Everything came to me;
Hello dear members of this community, first time I visit you here. I wanted to talk to you about how I have been feeling lately.
Before, I used to listen to friends or acquaintances when they said they felt as if they had collapsed. I tried to understand them and put myself in their shoes; but now, I can say that I never fully understood them.....
A few days ago, I was able to experience what it is like to feel that "you can't take it anymore", "you collapsed".
Yes, in the same way as a rope that supports a great weight for a long time and begins to break.
Nobody knows what it feels like until they have lived it.
When everything comes crashing down on you, and from one moment to the next your father becomes unemployed, his car breaks down, the appliances in the house start to break one by one, and you see so many things happening to you and your family that you feel that everything has come crashing down on you and you can't take it anymore.
Those episodes made me feel so bad that I just wanted to lock myself in my room and sleep. That was probably my way of forgetting my problems... or to avoid hearing about yet another problem added to the list.
For a moment I thought I was going to fall into depression, because all I wanted to do was cry.
After spending one or two days like that, I began to get up, I had already lamented enough, now what was left was to continue fighting, and with more strength, to be able to help my family little by little to solve the problems that we were facing at home.
From what I lived, I learned a lesson: we can never know all the problems and inconveniences that a family lives.
Behind a smile, a person may be making an effort to avoid being overwhelmed by problems.
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If we learn that someone is going through a difficult situation and it is in our hands to help them, even a little, at least with words of encouragement, that may be what the person needs to move forward.
No matter how old we are, problems can always catch up with us and throw us to the ground. However, that doesn't mean we are weak, because it can happen to anyone, but by getting up and moving forward we show how strong we are.
Thank you very much for reading me.
Todo se me vino encima;
Hola queridos miembros de esta comunidad, primera vez que los visito por acá. Les he querido hablar de cómo me he sentido últimamente.
Antes, escuchaba a amigos o a conocidos cuándo decían que se sentían como si habían colapsado. Yo trataba de entenderlos y de ponerme en su lugar; pero ahora, puedo decir que nunca los entendí completamente….
Hace pocos días, pude experimentar lo que es sentir que “ya no puedes más”, “qué colapsaste”.
Si, de la misma manera como una cuerda que soporto un gran peso por mucho tiempo y comienza a romperse.
Nadie sabe lo que se siente hasta que lo ha vivido.
Cuando todo se te viene encima, y de un momento a otro tu padre se queda sin empleo, se le avería el carro, se comienzan a dañar uno a uno los electrodomésticos en la casa, y ves que te ocurren tantas cosas a ti y a tu familia que sientes que todo se te vino encima y que ya no puedes más.
Esos episodios me hicieron sentir tan mal, que lo que quería era encerrarme en mi cuarto y dormir. Probablemente esa era mi manera de olvidar mis problemas… o de evitar escuchar qué a la lista se unía otro problema más.
Por un momento pensé que iba a caer en depresión, porque lo único que tenía eran muchas ganas de llorar.
Después de pasar uno o dos días así, comencé a levantarme, ya me había lamentado suficiente, ahora lo que quedaba era seguir luchando, y con más fuerza, para poder poco a poco ayudar a mi familia a solventar los problemas que en la casa se nos estaban presentando.
De eso que viví, aprendí una lección: nunca podremos conocer todos los problemas e inconvenientes que vive una familia.
Detrás de una sonrisa, una persona puede estar haciendo un esfuerzo para evitar que los problemas los arropen.
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Si nos enteramos que alguien está pasando por una situación difícil y está en nuestras manos poder ayudarlos, aunque sea un poco; por lo menos con palabras de ánimo, puede ser que eso sea lo que la persona necesita para seguir adelante.
No importa la edad en que tengamos los problemas, siempre nos pueden alcanzar y arrojarnos al piso. Sin embargo, eso no significa que seamos débiles, porque a cualquiera le puede pasar, pero al levantarnos y seguir adelante demostramos los Fuertes que somos.
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Muchas gracias por leerme.
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