Pregunta:¿Quiero ser como Jeffrey dahmer?

in Aliento2 years ago

Netflix a produciendo innumerables series de las cuales puedo comentar, pero hoy decidí hablar sobre la serie dahmer.

En términos escenográficos, el actor es perfecto, Porque su manera de representar el personaje te hace sentir como si estuvieras mirando al verdadero jeff.

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Pero hace algunas semanas me encontré navegando el Internet cuando un amigo publicó una imagen que me hizo reflexionar o tal vez tener una lluvia ideas, En esa imagen, un chico se estaba comparando con jeff diciendo que se sentía incomprendido al igual que él.

Eso me hizo pensar, Si Jeff hubiera sido comprendido, no habría cometido esos asesinatos?. Desde mi punto de vista creo que suponer que necesitaba ser comprendido es absurdo. Ya que sus gustó eran tan diferentes y fuera de lo que las personas consideraba normal.

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Todos somos seres humanos con gustos, ideas y objetivos diferentes, nadie se parece a nadie, Pero hay personas que tiene gustos similares y a Jeff no considero que le interesara, que lo comprendieran por qué el mismo no se conocía o al menos eso me dio a entender a mí.

Muchas cosas pudieron influir para convertirse en lo que fue, el hecho de que la madre en su embarazo consumiera una enorme cantidad de pastillas.

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Y mirándolo desde mi punto de vista como madre. Conozco el gran daño que puede generar el consumo excesivo de medicamento en un feto en pleno crecimiento.

Aunque mi poco conocimiento sobre las pastillas contra la ansiedad no me deja mucho que decir, pero podemos darnos cuenta de que la madre del protagonista tiene un gran caso de estrés, ansiedad y bipolaridad por sus cambios de ánimo y su comportamiento errático.

Otro punto sería el de enseñarle a un niño taxidermia. Si él hubiera sido un niño con todos sus sentidos, tal vez no se hubiera convertido en lo que llegó a ser.

Pero no sé, hay tantas variables en esto de la personalidad que puede tomar los hijos a través de las acciones de los padres, que me hace dudar, Porque viéndolo desde mi punto de vista ha habido asesinos con vidas mucho peores. Sus padres abusaban de ellos, madres prostitutas o muchas otras cosas, pero jeff tenía una familia disfuncional y eso fue suficiente.

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Que utilizará su sexualidad da a entender que no era una persona tan fuera de sus sentidos, tenía su manera particular de hacer la cosa, eso te hace pensar que al contrario de todos era una persona ingeniosa.

Comenzó a hacer ejercicio y usas su encantó para atraer a quizás uno del género más vulnerable en esa época, hablamos no tan solo de la comunidad LGBT sino sobre la comunidad negra. Saber la clase de racismo que había al rededor del año 1991, podemos dar cuenta que los negros eran ignorados por los blancos.

Se siente extraño separar de esa manera o desde mi punto de vista suena ofensivo.
El imaginarme la manera en como eran tratados mucho más. Y quizás era mucho peor para una persona homosexual y al mismo tiempo negra.

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En esos tiempos había todo ese montón de cosas que eran mal vistas para ellos, como el color, la homosexualidad, así como la igualdad de género. Aunque todas esas cosas siguen estando ahora, se sabe que antes era mucho más común la negligencia que se tenía contra ello.

Muchos de ellos solo buscaban una persona para amar, como Tony, uno de las personas que más marco la historia. Él quizás fue el más cercano a comprender a Jeffrey, pero ahí es donde nos damos cuenta de que no importaba lo muchos que lo entendiera, él era y sería lo que estaba dentro de él. Esa persona que solo quería matar.

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Una vez estaba leyendo un libro que se llamaba “la mente de un asesino” y en él estaba una frase que jamás olvidaré “que se necesita para ser un asesino” para lo cual el autor hablaba sobre que se necesita un estado mental en el cual todos tus malos pensamientos de su apoderaron de tu propia razón.

No era que él quisiera enseñarte como ser uno, simplemente en su estudio sobre ellos. Dio a entender que un asesino es un estado mental en el que solo ciertas personas pueden entrar.Porque según un Asesino conoce a una potencial víctima solo con mirarla.

No se necesita saber mucho sobre ella solo con mirar su camina, sus gestos, su porte. Conoce sus defectos y la manera de manipularlo.

Quizás hablando de esa manera Jeff siempre estuvo en el estado de un asesino semi—dormido porque digo esto porque en una parte de la serie él dice que no siente que haya pasado algo que lo volviera lo que fue.

él siempre se sintió de esa manera desde siempre.
Sabía que estaba incorrecto, pero salía de sí mismo ser de esa manera o comportarse así.

La verdad es que la serie tiene mucho de los cual hablar, pero también está el hecho de que resalta lo mal que estaban las personas que tenían una posición de autoridad, el asco que sentía a los homosexuales creyendo que era algo contagioso que necesitaba ser lavado y la manera de no investigar solo porque era una persona con gustos diferentes.

Eso también debió de darle ventaja para hacer lo que él quería.

Me hace preguntarme si hubiera sido investigado por alguna mujer, ¿tal vez muchos se hubieran salvado? O las mujeres de esa época también serían capaces de tener el mismo asco por un homosexual?.

Pero en ese momento las mujeres que llegaban a ese puesto era o muy luchadoras o ninguna quería tener que involucrarse en ese tipo de trabajos. El defecto del ente gubernamental siempre ha existido, pienso que no todos están dispuestos a hacer su trabajo como corresponde.

Y es una lástima saber que tantas vidas dependieron de esas personas con costumbres antiguas.

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Para finalizar y no darle tanta larga a este tema que tiene mucho por decir. Es una lástima que todos vivamos en este mundo y exista tanta discriminación, quizás por ello cada vez salen a relucir nuevos géneros o fetiches. Este mundo que supuestamente es tan en la cúspide de su crecimiento tecnológico.
Y que ya estamos en el siglo XXI Y aún existen todas esas barreras generacionales que no avanzan, espero que algún día sean rotas al fin.

Otra cosa romantizen al actor de esta serie no al asesino que está detrás de esta historia xD

¡Me gustaría escuchar sus opiniones sobre estos pensamientos!


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Question:Do I want to be like Jeffrey Dahmer?

-Netflix has produced countless series that I can comment on, but today I decided to talk about the dahmer series.

In terms of scenography, the actor is perfect, because the way he portrays the character makes you feel like you are watching the real jeff.

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But a few weeks ago I found myself surfing the internet when a friend posted an image that made me think or maybe brainstorm, In that image, a guy was comparing himself to jeff saying he felt misunderstood just like him.

That made me think, If jeff had been understood, he wouldn't have committed those murders.... From my point of view I think the assumption that he needed to be understood is absurd. Since his likes were so different and outside of what people considered normal.

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We are all human beings with different tastes, ideas and goals, no one is like anyone else. But there are people who have similar tastes and I don't think Jeff was interested, that he was understood because he didn't know himself, or at least that's what he gave me to understand.

Many things could have influenced him to become what he was, the fact that the mother consumed an enormous amount of pills during her pregnancy.

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And looking at it from my point of view as a mother. I know the great damage that excessive consumption of medication can do to a growing fetus.

Although my little knowledge of anti-anxiety pills doesn't leave me much to say, but we can realize that the protagonist's mother has a major case of stress, anxiety and bipolar because of her mood swings and erratic behavior.

Another point would be to teach a child taxidermy. If he had been a child with all his senses, maybe he wouldn't have become what he became.

But I don't know, there are so many variables in this personality thing that children can take on through the actions of their parents, that it makes me doubt, because looking at it from my point of view there have been murderers with much worse lives. Their fathers abused them, prostitute mothers or many other things, but jeff had a dysfunctional family and that was enough.

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That he will use his sexuality gives to understand that he was not a person so out of his senses, he had his particular way of doing the thing, that makes you think that contrary to everybody he was a resourceful person.

He started working out and using his charm to appeal to perhaps one of the most vulnerable gender at the time, we're talking not just about the LGBT community but about the black community. Knowing the kind of racism that was around in 1991, we can see that blacks were ignored by whites.

It feels strange to separate in that way or from my point of view it sounds offensive.
To imagine the way they were treated much more. And maybe it was much worse for a gay person and a black person at the same time.

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In those days there was that whole bunch of things that were frowned upon for them, like color, homosexuality, as well as gender equality. Even though all of those things are still around now, you know it was much more common before, the neglect that they had against it was much more common.

Many of them were just looking for a person to love, like Tony, one of the people who most shaped history. He was perhaps the closest to understanding Jeffrey, but that's where we realize that no matter how many understood him, he was and would be what was inside him. That person who just wanted to kill.

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Once I was reading a book called "the mind of a murderer" and in it was a sentence that I will never forget "what it takes to be a murderer" for which the author was talking about that you need a state of mind in which all your bad thoughts of your took over your own reason.

It wasn't that he wanted to teach you how to be one, simply in his study of them. He implied that an assassin is a state of mind that only certain people can enter, because according to him an Assassin knows a potential victim just by looking at them.

You don't need to know much about her just by looking at her walk, her gestures, her bearing. He knows her flaws and how to manipulate him.

Maybe speaking that way Jeff was always in the state of a semi-sleeping killer because I say this because in one part of the series he says he doesn't feel that anything happened to make him what he was.

He always felt that way all along.
He knew it was wrong, but it came out of himself to be that way or to behave that way.

The truth is that the series has a lot to talk about, but there's also the fact that it highlights how wrong people in a position of authority were, the disgust he felt towards homosexuals believing it was something contagious that needed to be washed away and the way he didn't investigate just because he was a person with different tastes.

That also must have given him leverage to do what he wanted.

It makes me wonder if he had been investigated by any women, maybe many would have been spared? Or would women of that time also be able to have the same disgust for a homosexual?.

But at that time the women who made it to that position were either very feisty or none of them wanted to have to get involved in that kind of work. The flaw in the government entity has always existed, I think not everyone is willing to do their job properly.

And it's a shame to know that so many lives depended on those people with old ways.

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To conclude and not to give so much length to this topic that has a lot to say. It is a pity that we all live in this world and there is so much discrimination, perhaps that is why every time new genres or fetishes come to light. This world that is supposedly so on the cusp of its technological growth.
And that we are already in the XXI century and there are still all these generational barriers that do not advance, I hope that someday they will be broken at last.

Another thing romanticize the actor in this series not the killer behind this story xD.

I'd love to hear your opinions on these thoughts!

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