I have had these thoughts as well. And why I do not agree with certain notions when it comes to the views of both women and men. My wife saw a spark in my eye, despite my broke arse, and she stayed with me through it all. She's also older than I am but now, how the roles have reversed.

Women don't like being ignored. That is bullshit men with pea sized brains would say as an excuse for their character or lack of. You said everything and more...