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Comparison is the stealer of joy, I mean it makes you feel like you're not doing enough or you're not good enough.

It takes away your self-esteem, demoralizes you and sometimes makes you cringe when people become successful. Comparison often time makes someone very competitive like they're in a tournament with another person, when unhealthy competition set it, anxiety sets in too, followed by depression and pessimism. If care is not taking one could begin to harbor resentment and also become frustrated when they feel they're not meeting up and gradually one begin to be less productive.

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Life isn't so, a quick reminder that life is life and too often how we plan life doesn't always go exactly, so please take it easy on yourself.

I have always believed that everyone has got their own time and everyone is currently in their own phase in life, so long as you do not stop halfway your route, you'll surely get to your destination.

The little steps you're taking today are actually making a big difference, they matter and they are bringing you to your next phase. Don't stop trying, don't feel discouraged, don't beat yourself too much, you're doing your best and you should be proud about it.

One thing that always helped me to avoid comparison is taking a moment to celebrate my little wins and realizing where I was yesterday isn't same as where I am at today. If you wanna beat comparison, just stay grateful for your wins, rather than compare your harvest to that of another farmer? Water yours and it will bloom.

That brings me to celebrating my 2nd year on Hive, just like yesterday I joined the Hive blockchain, finding my way around the chain with an open heart and today see how far I've come.

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I am aware that others who started same time with me, have accomplished more than I've done but that doesn't stop me from moving and that doesn't stop me from celebrating with them either. I will never compare my journey to others, some people write twice a day or even thrice day despite their busy schedule, makes tons of comments, keep up with a lot of things and they are thriving, I really do admire their zeal and I am always happy to see them win.

Nevertheless, I won't downplay my effort and consistency as well, my little power ups, my effort to write daily and not just dropping quantity but adding value to my post, my own little way of engaging on the chain.

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I won't also take for granted the friends I've made along the way who have been a backbone to me, and those who always come around my blog to leave me a thoughtful comment or a show of support.

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The journey have been filled with so much lessons, experience, exploration, growth, and a lot more.

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When I took a moment to reflect on how I started and now, I couldn't help but smile and applaud myself for the journey so far.

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I started with no hive power, but today I am already at 3.4k HP, I've been able to save some HBD and I have been able to hit most of my Hive goals that I set for the year and we are just in August.

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I believe in myself and I know if I am still consistent I will accomplish more. I can't over emphasize how much this blockchain mean to me and how it has helped me in so many ways. I will never compare my journey to the next person, we have different challenges, we are on different timeline as well. I am proud of myself and all I have been able to do in my own little way and I will never set an unrealistic goal to to measure up with others, like a moving train, I'll keep going slow and steady.

Here is home, here is blissful, here I find solace behind my keyboard, here I challenge myself to be a better version of who I am, here I am ready to learn and unlearn and here I am ready to unleash my full potential.

Cheers to all of who who I've met on the way, to those I'm yet to meet? I can't wait to meet you too and to all the motivations I read through your contents, it has helped me to keep going.

Thank you to all of you waking up everyday and making effort to show up here on the chain, because of course, we have life outside Hive, but your dedication and commitment has a tremendous impact more than you think and people are watching and they are inspired by it.

Don't give up now, don't give up ever cause as for me, I won't give up!

Happy 2nd Year Hive Anniversary to me ๐ŸŽ‰, the journey continues.. No retreat, no surrender. More love, more energy and more blessings!!

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Here are chocolates to celebrate my journey, please take one and pass it to the next person, and if you wish, you can pop Rosรฉ on my behalf, bills on....๐Ÿค”. You're awesome!!!โคโค

Kindly enjoy this and do have a nice day!!

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comparison is the stealer of joy,

So true. The only time I think comparison is positive is when we compare who we compare our current selves to our past selves.

It's easy to think that we aren't progressing in life because some of our goals seem to take a very long time to come to fruition. When I look back on the journey of my life, I see things differently. The hopes and dreams I had for myself long ago have come to fruition in surprising and unexpected ways. Yet in between those years it seemed like things weren't moving forward at all.

This understanding makes me want to lean in even more into my current list of hopes and dreams to take action so that they too may come to pass.

The only time I think comparison is positive is when we compare who we compare our current selves to our past selves.

This is so true, striving to being better than who were yesterday is the only healthy comparison.

This understanding makes me want to lean in even more into my current list of hopes and dreams to take action so that they too may come to pass.

You said it all, I believe that so long as we keep going, we will surely get to our destination and reach our dreams, let's keep our hopes alive.

Thank you for your wonderful and thoughtful comment, you rock!!

Comparison is the stealer of joy

Bam, you got that right!
Congratulations on your two years Amie! You come so far on Hive. I mean who knew you would be going to an island soon thanks to people on Hive!
Hehe I just saw your HBD Savings... well done Amie that is something to be super proud of!

ย 26 days agoย (edited)ย 
Congratulations on your two years Amie! You come so far on Hive. I mean who knew you would be going to an island soon thanks to people on Hive!

I never saw that coming Unce T.. Thanks for the congratulatory message and thanks to Hive for all it has done so far.

YOu are so very welcome

Hehehe, let me start with this chocolate biko..how do I get mine for real... because this tremendous achievement of yours calls for celebration ๐ŸŽŠ๐ŸŽ‰๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ˜

Wow, just wow Amie...your growth and consistency is admirable..so amazing!
Look at how far you have come
Oh..boy..ur hbd in savings is quite a lot of hardwork
Hive to our rescue ๐Ÿค—
Comparison is never healthy and I am happy you are working at ur pace , celebrating ur wins without feeling less of yourself
You are doing great sis ๐Ÿฅฐ
Congratulations ๐Ÿ‘๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰

Wow, just wow Amie...your growth and consistency is admirable..so amazing!

Thank you so much sis, you know I always tell you that you inspire me a lot, I really got motivated by your consistency, so thanks for that.

Comparison is never healthy and I am happy you are working at ur pace , celebrating ur wins without feeling less of yourself

Thank you so much, comparison will only steal ones joy and productivity, so long as we keep moving at our pace, we are doing just fine.

Congratulations dear, no one gets to success by comparing himself to the other, that time for comparison is waste of time, so just remain focused in your track, am happy for you ๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž

Thanks a bunch.โคโค

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Thanks a lot.

Comparison like you said is really a great stealer of Joy
Congratulations ๐Ÿ‘๐ŸŽ‰
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ย 24 days agoย (edited)ย 

Thank you.

Welcome

Congratulations dear Amie. To be honest, it requires a lot of determination and hardwork to be where you are now.
Cheers to more achievements before the year runs out.๐Ÿฅ‚
#dreemerforlife

Thank you so much.

Hey there!
#Dreemport brought me back again. A great opportunity to get my own share of the chocolates, don't you think so??? ๐Ÿ˜‚

Lol.. Thanks for coming twice ๐Ÿ˜€

Congratulations Amie ๐ŸŽŠ.... You believed in yourself and it paid off. A well celebrated victory.
#dreemerforlife.

Thank youโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน

You are welcome ๐Ÿค—