Build confidence: What are you saying to yourself?

What are you saying to yourself?

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I grow up to discover that in life every human has that moment of self talk, moment of inner dialogue going on within them .what matters is what you are using the moment for.Are you reflecting on positivity or negativity?.The question is what are you saying to yourself.

At times we have these re-occurring thought which might be about what happened in the past, about what we are facing presently or about our future action and for most people these thought are negative which might lead to depression,low self esteem, feeling inferior and even limiting your abilities because they allow the defeated messages to permeate their mind.

2 Timothy 1:7 For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.

Let me share my one of my experience here
During my 300 Level there was a course in my department that was kind of difficult so i asked my senior colleagues about the course and they told me
that in the previous years the person with the highest grade scored grade c and was the first class in the department so when i heard that i was afraid of failing though i tried my best so as to avoid failing the course but when the result was released my grade was a "D" because i limited my abilities that i cant pass beyond a c" grade with my best effort and it happened i scored below a "c"grade
The problem wasn't the course rather theproblem was the "i don't have what it takes mentality that went through my mind.

I got to know that these negative mindset roots from childhood,parental upbringing or maybe peer Pressure but we have to restructure our mind to overcome that plight,we need to forget the past experiences, discard negative messages and put on a new mindset.

Always remind yourself of the promises of God upon your life,be hopeful during your internal dialogue.
Stay away from negative people that doesn't encourage and believe in you cause that might influence the way you talk to yourself.

You may have had some unfair experiences, maybe living far from potential,having low self esteem, lacking confidence in yourself but have you reflected on what you say to yourself and how it has affected your life so far.

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Be positive towards yourself, proclaim positive affirmation just as the famous quote says "Anything you say long enough will become part of you and lastly believe in God and his promises. Hope you've been blessed

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