When dudes were working for me I would say how it doesn't matter who it is, me or them, we could do a million big things but it doesn't matter when it's the little things nobody will forget.

That and 'you will make a name for yourself, it's inevitable, whether it's a respectable name is up to you.'

I had several of them I know this doesn't have a whole lot to do with grandparents but when I get to bla bla bla bla bla I'm like bla bla bla thumbs! Get ahold bla bla of yourself!