Memoir Monday #44 - My High School Years

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Dear Hiverse!

Without any wishing list to make, I just add this project on the top of my list to join weekly. I dunno, but I think this is the best way to keep myself remember something important or not in my life. You know, as we getting older and the weaker our memories will be. Thanks to @ericvancewalton who initiated this project and this #44 is about High School Years memory. All you have to do is answering the questions which you can check on This Post


Right after reading the main post, I was scrolling through my google photos gallery and unfortunately I didn't even had the picture of my high school which located in my hometown, Lhokseumawe, Aceh, Indonesia and only 500 meters away from my parent's house.

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The only available pictures of our 20th reunion in 2013, 9 of 43 classmates I had attended the reunion event and the one behind me has passed away 2 years after the reunion😭


I was the one who didn't like being in a frame during my school days, because I'd prefer being the photographer 😁. I like to watch the expression of my classmates. so, my existence in any class photo sessions would be hardly find. We have a wonderful years together and we keep in touch personally.



My high school years was not the peak of my life but I'm sure that it really shape me the way I became today. It's a public school which also a favorite high school to attend in the district. 4 of us 9 siblings also alumnnis of this school, SMA Negeri 1 Lhokseumawe or also known as Smansa Lhokseumawe. We shared the same building with the private noon-evening high school SMA Malikussaleh at that time and our back cemented school wall also a classroom wall for an Islamic High School, MAN 1 Lhokseumawe.


Now, answer these questions to paint us a picture of your high school years

Reflections on My Senior Year in High School
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Did you know your current love in high school?

Nope, definitely not. I met @dipoabasch in 2009 on Facebook 😁. A schoolmate who I didn't even know his full name was confessed to me under the Norfolk tree which was grown next to his classroom on the day we graduated. I never get in touch with him, but his close friend told me that he's fine when we met at the reunion.

What type of car did you drive?
No car, I just need to walk to the school every morning and sometimes when I was late, I climb up the broken iron fence at the north side or waiting for the chance to slip in when someone open the gate to went out. Alright, I've done the observing task to know the way in and out unseen.

What kind of work did you do?
Homework... LOL, to tell you the truth, I took a random job to finished the homework for my rich friends and they paid with brunch or snacks. We seldom find any jobs available for students except for fishing and farming or selling foods.

Where did you live?
My Parent's house, Gang Panti Asuhan, Hagu Selatan, Lhokseumawe, Aceh, Indonesia.

Were you popular?
uhmm.. I don't know, but all 250 students from the same class knows who am I, because I can be friends with everybody and also known as pretty girls's protector.

Were you in band or choir?
No, we don't have that extra curriculum activity. Our Art class was only at the 10th grade, learning a few national songs.

What did you do after your graduation ceremony?
Actually we don't have the graduation ceremony, only an art performance day as a goodbye party hosted by the juniors and school. I arranged another separated party specifically for the classmates at the beach.

Ever get suspended?
Never, because all teachers thought that I'm a good student. My headmaster was once trying to punish me because I sent out all my friends to skip the class after we attended a national education day at the government district field. Our class was chosen to represent the school. So, I stayed at the class with 3 other friends and threw our school bags over the wall where my friends were hiding and waiting. After interrogating me for an hour, He gave up and release me (we went our own way after that).

If you could go back, what experience would you relive?
I would try my best to make the school open the linguistic class once again, so I won't waste my time playing around.I have to take Biology Class at that time because of my mediocre scores. while I was refused to go to Sociology Class,due to my good score at exactas thingy. Goodness, I will be great in law or business subjects if I was in Social Class.

Did you ever skip school?
Hehehe, let me know if you want to skip school days, I can open a window for you. I did, but no teachers took it as an issue.

Did you attend football games?
of course! I'm the manager of the class football/soccer team. I was the one who sent the challenge's request to another class and we went straight to a football field near the beach after school. Sometimes when we're running out of substitute players, I played as full back for 10 minutes, when we're about to win the game.

What was your favorite subject?
History but I got appreciation for my second best scores in English and first in Biology.

Do you still have your yearbook(s)?
We don't have this kind of book at that time, I was trying to proposed one to the student council, but they have no idea how to do that.

Did you follow your intended career path?
No, I didn't. We don't have any career plans nor the particular discussion about it when we're in high school.

Do you still have your high school ring?
Our school never had this kind of culture

Who was your favorite teacher?
Mrs. Sukmawati, My second year Homeroom Teacher also a Physics Teacher (she's still active on facebook though). She hosted so many class gathering during our second year and we have many memorable times together. Later, her little brother also my best partner in the university on conducting student movement through the reformation protest (1998-1999).

What was your hairstyle?
I wear hijab, so my long unkempt hairs always hidden under the long veil. (Muslim woman had to wear hijab for religious reason)

What were your favorite shoes?
I didn't have any favorite, my family couldn't afford branded shoes, but I love my unbranded white sneaker.

What was your favorite food?
Doughnuts! it was sold at the school cooperation stall close to headmaster's office. Tbh, I seldom eat at school days, because my parents seldom gave me money for snacks. My classmates will treat me some snacks every day.

Who was your favorite singer?
Iwan Fals, Slank, Guns 'N Roses, The Police, NKOTB,Phill Collins, Bee Gees, The Beatles, Queen, so many that we have a hot discussion during the class reset.

What cologne did you wear?
I didn't use any cologne, couldn't afford it. To prevent my armpit stinky aroma, I use the powder or baby talc and cajuput's oil.

How old were you when you graduated?
Seventeen

Did you have any nicknames?
"Boy" girlfriends called me that because they considered me a tomboy or a boy

What high school did you attend?
SMANSA LHOKSEUMAWE

What year did you graduate?
1993

What’s changed the most about the world since you graduated?
If you are living in 1990's you'll know how the world changing fast and faster. Technology, internet, Information, Entertainment, business and world peace. from all in cash to cashless transaction. Better access to public information, transportation but lack of deep and meaningful social interaction. Being part of Generation X, I'm lucky that I was equipped with the ability to adapt with the world changing.

How have you changed since high school?
Besides my ages and my height, my classmates would say that I haven't changed at all. Still a good and unharmed fun-seeker, easy to mingle with, impatience but considerate. My Upbringing environment really spoiled me with the freedom of speech and will. I don't have any career plans, just run with the flow. I never planned to be a Human Rights and Democracy activist but the local situation guided me to that way. I dreamed to be a detective (blame on Alfred Hitchcock and Trio Detectives, and Agatha Christie for that) but then I worked like a detective for a different issues and purposes (a Radio Reporter)for 10 years and then retired when I was 40.

If you could time-travel and tell your teenage self something what would it be?
Be patience, learn more about your religion especially Arabic language and the Qur'an. Be wise when facing unexpected situation and stop being emotional on everything. Quit smoking and observe your surrounds carefully, there are many good people you would miss when they're gone. Save up some money that you'll earn for future investment. Find a particular object that you can master of, jack all trades is not for you.


I still have a good relationship with my classmates and schoolmates. When I go back to my hometown, we will arrange a coffee time together and talk about our latest news or digging up old memories to laugh at. We didn't change much because many of us still living at the same house, at the same town, village as we were in High School.

Thanks for stopping by and I'll see you around

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Good thing your classmates invited you to lunch every day, God (or whoever you believe in) always provides us with what we need. I also keep in touch with some of my classmates from back then, who are my friends, but very little. most of us are scattered all over the world, almost no one lives in the same city.
It was very nice to read you.
Regards.

 2 days ago  

Thanks for stopping by @syllem, my hometown was once known as petrodollar city because there're many vital project operated and now it's all in history only. So, I have so many rich friends who didn't mind to buy me 1 or 2 doughnuts every day. Yes, being a nice and good student for the teacher but a fun seeker in class was the best role and never failed till I graduated. That's how my old classmates remember me. Many of my friends were leaving the city after graduation because there's no good university at that time and the local security also a challenge, there's a rebellious movement against the government. But, Fortunately many of my classmates were locals and those who lives away from my hometown will try their best to come back whenever there's a reunion. I think that's because the good memories we kept and thanks to my homeroom teachers who made us that way.

see you around!

 4 days ago  

You were quite the rebel @cicisaja , not surprised though, and you even played football!
It's lovely to still be in touch with schoolmates, your teacher sounds like a lovely lady to have arranged get-togethers.
I also love #memoirmonday as our memories fade, and old photos get lost, it's often brought back a memory that was hidden deep inside!
Nice response Cici!

 2 days ago  

hahaha.. I can't pretend to be a nice lady when I'm a rebel inside @lizelle. I was born as a free soul after all, thanks to my parents who let me grow the way I want to be.

I couldn't agree more with you, even when I'm 50, I have lost so many memories and this project is better than playing the colorzen or any puzzle words mobile applications.

Thank you for your nice comments and support as always, I'll do my best to hang around our community

Keren, Kak. Masih kompak sampai sekarang ya.

 4 days ago  

Alhamdulillah, mungkin karena sejak SD dan SMP sudah sering ketemu yaa... kalau kita berada dalam lingkaran yang sama selama lebih dari 10 tahun, asalkan nggak ada masalah tikung menikung atau tipu menipu.. aman lah.

Makasih yaa sudah singgah

Benar, Kak.

Mohon supportnya, Kak. Saya pendatang baru di sini.

 4 days ago  

Hana masalah kata orang Aceh kan 🙌 yg penting jgn menjiplak, gak AI banget ikut aturan main dgn baik saja.

Bereh kak

Wow
This was a nice read. I enjoyed every part of it. You really had a good time in high school.

I also like the advice you would give to the younger you. As teenagers we tend to rush everything forgetting that there's a whole life ahead of us. Be patient, one step at a time you would get to your destination

 4 days ago  

Thank you dear @ozd, The younger me quite a cry baby anyway🤣🤣 even though she acted like she's strong. When she read a book, no matter what happened around, she'd keep on reading until the last page and last words. When it was done, nobody was around and she missed so many good people who can be her partner in kind.

I think I was lucky that my parents let me enjoy my school days without many restrictions. They trust me and are supportive of any decisions I make.

 4 days ago  

Hello @cicisaja

This is @lizelle, I'm part of the Silver Bloggers’ Community Team.

Thank you for sharing your excellent post in the Silver Bloggers community! As a special "token" of appreciation for this contribution to our community, it has been upvoted, reblogged and curated.

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 2 days ago  

thank you so much for the curation and support

@cicisaja, you're rewarding 0 replies from this discussion thread.

 yesterday  

Oohh I don't know how it works before, I'll see what I can do in the future to set the beneficiary 🥲