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RE: Hive-Naija Weekend Engagement #25 - "The Age Factor"

in Speak Peace2 years ago

I feel having deadline is important to one's growth in life. It's better if the deadline is a personal one.

Because goAls without a deadline would likely die from procrastination.

Eehn, what do I know about relationships 😂😂. I've only been in one, and it don't seem like another would be happening anytime soon.

I think we have a lot more things in common.

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Well you're right about the deadline thing.

During my uni days I only get serious when it's a day to go, so that makes sense.

I think we have a lot more things in common.

You wey be lord of the girls 🤣

You wey be lord of the girls 🤣

Lol. The same guy that you call lord of the girls has not been in a relationship since 2018. 😅😂😅😂

Na you choose to not be now, no be say them no plenty.

Two very different thing 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    'Because goAls without a deadline would likely die from procrastination"

I have learnt 💥

So you feel like there should be a deadline in marriage?

Yeah it is a personal thing. Mostly for a guy. In my head, I have plans for the year I want to get married and I am working towards it to be personally ready before it gets to that time.

And you haven't told me; the bride, nawa oh

Even me, I don't know the bride. I am just working on myself mostly in building skills and finance.

I am the bride uncle, get in the program 😆

That deadline thing is too much pressure abeg. I've seen people that marry wrong because they felt they were too old and past the deadline they gave themselves. Marriage still scatter. It's just better to follow your heart and not compromise on that.

Hmmmmmm... Boss lady 🙌🙌🙌

Yeah creating goals and working towards them are important.

But i think with that plan you need to till have someone in mind?
What if you reach that age, then you start looking for the wife??