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TOPIC FOR DISCUSSION : DEALING WITH ANGER
This week's topic was suggested by @quduus1
we are known to have different tempers, as you all know it is mostly unavoidable to get angry if not consistently but occasionally you just let it out because of frustration...
- What do you do when you are angry?
- Do you get harsh at everything in your surrounding, break things, shout, or walk out ..
Tell us how you are able to control and manage your anger ...
You could share us some tips, you don't know you might be helping others..
Be as simple and sincere with the discussion, hehehe.
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Hmm, Anger, the truth every human is meant to feel anger, whether expected or not, so how do we manage it, for me, the first thing I try to do is walk out of the scene,if this doesn't work, try as much as possible to say less while angry because some foolish words are usually made out of anger,if the person you are angry with keeps saying hurtful words to provoke you, try plugging your earpiece or airpod to avoid hearing what they are saying to further provoke you.
Although sometimes, i feel the rage burst out everything in my mind, and then I receive my PEACE, instead of carrying the anger around or having the person in mind.
@treasuree @constanceitohan @mosesessien come and join the weekend hangout
I am coming o
We are waiting for you 🥵.
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 some people are just so annoying and strong headed but I think I like your method it's kinda cooly strange 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Haha as long as it works for me, after trying all methods, when you tried to avoid the angerbanf it still keeps coming, you have no choice than to face it squarely, just have it at the back of your mind that you are facing it to get it resolved .
Hehehe you na guru oh, please comman teach me oh hehehehe
I no be guru o, it just depends in the circumstance involved
Hehehe 🤣🤣🤣 you are strange hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 I hail you oh, I respect you
That's true sha but you have good ideas ❤️.
Is it not teach that she is already teaching you so 🙄.
Hehehe 🤣🤣🤣 you this girl is here AGAIN 😂🤣😂🤣
Will he even listen or apply this method?
😂😂, I am full now and ready for fox 🦊😉
Nice, it's a good advise to have the mind of resolving the issue before facing it squarely.
Heheh yeah that is indeed true I stand with my beloved hope
Thank you for standing with me, can I stroll now? 😂🥵
Yes people like you sometimes sha 🤧🤧.
Heheh 🤣🤣🤣 hope you don start again but this week we will share love my love 😘
Who love help
Mtchewww 😏
Hehehehehe 😂😂😂 you go talk am again my Love
Hahaha 😂😂
Awwn, no wahala, I do not mind sharing at all 😁😤
Hehehe 🤣🤣🤣 see you old woman
Better apply it🤫😏😏😉
I work out most times to prevent unwanted outcomes
Yea, if it works for you, great then
Hehehe I surely will because seeing that person face will make the anger more extreme
Exactly
Heheh 🤣🤣🤣 that is why I just go far away as possible because I can break the person head aswear 🤫🤫🤫
Abi oo.
Ah!!! I don't know why I feel like taking this personally 😂😂.
Heheh like you are high abi🤣😂
I think I am starting to be scared of you o. You're feel like taking or personal ke?😒
But what if it doesn't?
Ohhhh it does actually very very
Hmm, okay that's good then.
No wonder you always like walking out on me, no problem I have learned now 🥰👍.
Heheh 🤣🤣 yeah when I am angry I just ignore and leave the space until I am cool 😎
Like 24 hours?
Hehehehe I can do that, I might even be talking to you and still be pissed aswear 🤫
That is too much naw
No wahala, since it's working it's fine.
Heheh yeah it's working for me but not in all cases like your own heheh
Or else, you'd break heads, right? 😒🚶♀
Hehehe you don dey smoke comrade heheheh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Unwanted outcome sounds good....the other day I had issues with you fox, you didn't walk out oo
You was busy giving it to me back to back but shaa...butbwe later settled Las las
We no settle oh, I just had to let go
Really 😂
So you dey carry grudges for head?
E go heavy you nah 😂
I no dey carry grudges for head but I have it in my heart hehehe 🤣🤣
You're right, when we are angry it's wise to talk less and listen more 👌.
Sure sis
Yeah 🥰
This your talk less and listen more has sinked inside my brain 🧠
Thanks 👍😊
It's from the Bible sha, I just said it again. But I'm happy you have kept it to use.
Yea...thanks so much 👍🤗🤝
I'm honored Ma'am 🙏
Mummy G.0🙌
Lolz, thank you so much daddy OG lolz
True, or else the words that get spitted out might be one that was not planned. and can be used against such a person when the whole thing dies down.
You're absolutely right dear.
Thanks, mama! 🙇♂️
You're welcome dear.
My dear, spoken words cannot be retrieved. A lot of horrible words do come out from many people while angry, so the best is to press the mute button 🔘 if possible 😂
Exactly o my sister, a word is enough for the wise.
Yes, it's best to press mute. But how many people have the ability to do that? There are some people who possess a hot temper..
Raw Truth
Undiluted 👍🤣🤣
Oh, you are making me to feel myself small.😎
I agree with your point......but that plug in your earpiece...the thing no clear 🤣🤣🤣I feel that music comes later when that person is not present because sometimes they might be older than you eg your parents.....
True too O, they will now be feeling as if you are insulting them, if you do long hair, use am cover your ear while using a wireless earpiece, the goal is to avoid getting angry at hurtful words spoken to you, if you no come hear wetin dey talk, how u wan come dey vex for wetin you no hear? Just a suggestion though
🤣🤣🤣🤣long hair
Omo he no easy
🤣🤣🤣abi o
Until them pull that long hair like a rope that was used to tie a cow..🤣
Hahaha😄😄😄 funny u
Isn't it a concern? You know some people may get angry almost to a point of madness. They go just grab than long hair..😂
Yes the best thing to do is to walk, inorder to clam the situation, because if you react immediately,you might regret your action later
You got the point🙋♀️
Haha I like how you said "plugging your earpiece or airpod"... But wait oo what if it's an elderly person? Like a family member... If na my papa, the way he go take disown me eeh 🤣...
But yeah I understand what you mean and we both have that in common... I also like to walk away when I'm angry. E hard sha but I make sure to calm myself and think before acting out.
Happy weekend! ❤️🤗
Yea, walking away should always be the fist thought to avoid an outburst, or you can try @mrenglish method, go look for water drink, it probably will work for you too.
Lovely weekend to you too.
But what if that water did the opposite? - like a water break. Instead of calming your nerves, it gives you more energy to continue the war..🤔
Nice one. Keep spreading the water therapy.
Great weekend too!
Hahaha😄😄 will give it more endorsements after trying it out.
🤣🤣🤣. Hope you had a great weekend.
You know what? Just go and create a home at under-bridge sharpaley.🤣
Imagine you used the earpiece when they were almost rounding up their talk, my dear you just elongated it by maybe 3 hours..🤣
I'm telling you! 🤣 Ahhh 🙆.. I no fit try am oo
The only solution is just to let them talk all they wan talk. and carry a remorseful face. Then sigh once in a while. But when you can see a sign of them being tired of talking but say you want to ease yourself and off you go to your room.. You alone!
You can thank me later...!
Honestly, you got the point. Most times, if we aint careful about what we say during anger moments, we tend to mis-talk! And even if we were right, our mis-talk can be used against us and then we are mis-judged!
Exactly bro
Being angry is not bad at all but the way around it can make it look bad or terrible.
You be like, say your mind and the worst can happen noni...hahahaha
Na so O, just say your mind and end the madness once.
Anger is simply the devil's anointing (permit me to say). You oy get to know the weight of what your anger had done when you are calmed after a moment of exhibiting anger.
The best way I handle anger is to take water when I notice I am beginning to get infuriated. At other times, I just take a deep breath. And when these does not work, walking away from the scene is the final resort.
Hi guys. Thank you, @quduus1 for this wonderful topic suggestion.I have been tutored that when I allow anger to rage from me, I could become more of a fool.
Hmm, these steps might seem foolish to people but they just work like magic.
Seriously. The idea came out from my experience, trying to control my temperament.
Wow
I see... maybe I will try this too
Who knows 🤦
You should not get angry but in case you do, drink water. 😪
Hahaha
This your recommendation is just cracking my ribs 😂
That is true 💯.
If person dey continually angry nko, them drink water repeatedly...until osmosis occurs..🤣🤣
Try what???
Putting water in your mouth are you sure you will not drink it and reply?🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
Honestly, this seems weird 😂👍
He didn't a say you should put water in your mouth oo 😂😂, he said you should drink water, lolz.
Exactly, my point. A person go just swallow water, gets energized, and probably continues again.
Yes, you should 😊❤️
It's really nice, I have tried it before and it worked really well.
That's a good testimonial for the water therapy then. It works.
Yes it is, I have others who have tried it too and they agreed it works too.
I must confess, anybody that who has mastered how to tame his or her anger does not know what God has done for them.
Anger is a evil tool. When its rage sets in, we the individual losses control of bus or her actions.
Honestly, excess anger is a beast of no nation. If it's not controlled, then it takes control by itself.
Water ke... What if water no dey.
The GitHub task please try to do it bro
Hehehehe the guy shock me aswear, why I go dey drink water when I dey vex ahahahaah 🤣🤣 to
Yes oo, it helps relax the nerves, you should try it sometimes 🥰😊.
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 lol 🤣🤣 water can bo calm my own ohhh Lolz 😂🤣🤣 fire fire
It will, never say never, go and try it first 😉.
It is called water therapy. It calms the nerve.
Hehehehe I guess I will try it because you look like doctor and I dey respect doctor aswear 🤫🤫🤫
Ahaha. Doctor kwa. Nah wetin I don try before and e work.
Uhm, deep...! Maybe I'd try it someday.
Our nerves are calmed when we take water.
You will most likely pour the water away na..
Abi na truly what if there is no water around nko???? Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣
Water go dey, if e nor dey na to walk away naw 🤕.
Hehehe peeele see motivational speaker hehehe 🤣🤣 walk away ko walk away ni. My brother break bottle 😂🤣🤣
I will not be surprised to hear that my own fox break bottle 😂😉, but please before you do so, remember that we care for you and want you alive for us 😂😂🤫
Hahaha, which bottle be that? You sef you nor break bottle na come person when dey drink water, please be calming down oo 😂😂
Then find any source of water. At least even in a desert, oases exist..
Water gat dey oo 😂.
I have tried it but couldn't find where to sign up.
Done
Signed up and like the first emoji
Why did I read this thing first...
as if instead of the water @mrenglish said, the (or a) GitHub task is the solution..?🤔
Ahahaha, @temibot, I have done the GitHub task.
Yeah, I know right..🤣
Hehehehe you are indeed a strange type, you take water lolz what is the function of the water lool 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It helps your nerves to be relaxed and that in turn will help you think better.
Hehehehe cold water or hot water 💦 eheheh 🤣🤣🤣🤣 who water help hehehe 🤣🤣🤣
Cold one naw 🤣🤣🤣
Heheheh you sure I think say na hot water 💧
You no gimme hot or cold coke or Pepsi make I dey okay you dey gimme water hehehe 🤣🤣I go vex twice
Lolz, water works better dear. I would have told you to try it but I don't want you to become angry 😂😂.
Heheh 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I don't want water oh
Arrrgh.. you truly valid bro! It is true na, why normal water when we have chilled MALT?
God bless you my Fellow ffo hehe 😊😊😊😊
Correct
My scientist has spoken 👍🤗
Yes oo, it's now I know I learned something in school 😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Your teachers deserves some accolades 👍
At that point when you are angry, your nerves are burnt up and ready to explode in rage. With water, it calms like veggies.
Hehehehe bad guy, you too Sabi good thing heheh 🤣🤣🤣 see you dey sweet talk water like say he be SHARWAMA 😥 hehehehehe
Water be like Shawarma.
But come to think of it o, you know humans are different. What water does to sodium is kinda different from Lithium o..
Individual differences abound, no doubt. But water does a lot of good to every human.
Yes, I am glad you got the point I was making. But water it is...😁
To help refuel anger...🚶♀
But really, it depends on the type of water though..
Yeah mine is just to leave the surrounding and go out and blow off some steam either by playing games or football
how does that help?
Okay yeah it helps me because when I see football everything that is wrong with gets better automatically, it is just like my chil pill as guys na ...
So when I get to the field I play ball until I am relieved and I am enjoying the game
Hmm, that's understandable sha, but that doesn't mean you should walk away from me all the time, you can just tell me you know 😂😂.
Ohhhh I don't know how to do that,if I talk to you it will end instantly but I will talk with red eye which I don't like showing aswear 🤫
i can never understand guys and football, something that will be giving you body pain
Hehehehe ah football is life my dear 😘😘 there is Joy in ball oh, hehehehe 😂😂
You don't want to know the joy unspeakable that exists in there..!
Me sef I don't know oo
you suppose😎 to know o
I nor come know so oo.
Hmm, so that's how you will be walking away from me anyhow abi? 🥺.
Hehehehe if you make me angry I will walk away until I am Calm and then I will be okay
Nice, it's a good thing 🥰.
Hehehehe yeah oh
Blow off some steam 🙄🙄
Like a locomotive train? 😂🤣
Heheehhhe 😋 yeyehh no dey yne cultist oh you go collect wotowoto hehehh
Which one be wotowoto? Abi Nah you go collect......🙄
I tire oo..
or nuclear reactor.🤣
Abi him wan smoke Igboo ?
Maybe, maybe not....
Or loud..??
Very well, that is another thing.
Mine is just food. Better food!! 😁
It is recorded that we can get angry but shouldn't sin in our anger.
But I agree with you here sha...hehehe
Come to think of it though, I have never tried drinking water when I am angry, I am wondering how it helps LOLOL🤣
Oh, I get it, NO wonder one musician sang this song, " I'M HOTTER THAN FIRE, GIVE ME SOME WATER......" Somebori should complete it. LOL
Hehehe you sef Sabi am, like seriously 💥💥💥 I will never drink water when I am angry it's kinda crazy 😂😂
😂
Abi na I no follow you laff I dey talk serious 🤣🤣🤣
When you try I'm na you go know say you dey stress yourself since 😂😂.
Exactly, that was how Naaman delayed getting healed because the process was to easy for him to get better, lolz.
Hehehe 🤣🤣🤣 Pele mummy GO🤫🤣🤣🤣...BUT I won't drink oh only if you gimme with 😘
See you, that means you will have to go and play ball and remove steam oo 😤😤
Correct babe
Some simple things work like magic only if we believe 👌✅
Yes oo, they do 😊
you too complete it yourself, see person wey dey talk, she vex pass beans. hahahahhaha
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣 abi na I fear her anger aswear 🤫
Hmm, so you don see her dey vex before?
Heheh 🤣🤣 see you..you no see how nobody could come to her to confess hehehe 🤣🤣🤣
from her writing na, you sef go feel her anger
I don't know for @quduus1 o
you need to fear her o, she be vex part one
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 you see hope she dey fear 🔥🔥🔥
You never see anything na hin you yarn say you dey fear my anger...Thank you @hopestylist
I comment my reserve..🚶♀🚶♀🚶♀
Hehehh 🤣🤣🤣🤣 lolz 😂🤣🤣 we don start my dear, I go first you come next week sef hehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣...
I dey like challenge Weller 🤣😂🤣
Me self I commented my reservoir 😂😂🤣🤣😂
You're welcome dear, please sorry for Foxy, he just has bad mouth 😂.
Ah!!! Beans dey vex? I never knew 😂😂
if you put beans for fire, how many hours e dey take before e don? so now you know say beans sef dey vexed😁😁,
clap for me na
😆
Treasure 😂😂, I sight this your beans vs anger illustration 👍
Hahaha 👏👏you are famtambulous with that explanation, lolz.
Who knows? Instead of taking water to chill anger, Maybe immediately putting beans on fire is a better alternative. 🤔
😂
Lolz 🤣🤣
LOLzzzz...Ehn shey beans dey vex?
Me I never see beans wey dey vex before o?
Abi is it just me? Hahahaha😂
Let me explain again, you dey speak English,
As beans dey stay long for fit, e mean say e dey vex😁
😆😆😆😆😂
Yes the Bible said that and it also says we should be slow to anger too 😂😂.
Drinking water helps in a very mysterious way, you should try it. Me I don't know that song sha, @quduus1 do you know the song?
Heheh 🤣🤣🤣 weytin I no sabi for this world heheh 🤣🤣🤣🤣,na song wey popular na ..
Old school girl
@hopestylist ah! you don't know the song...Eeyahh...lol
Mr Sabi man @quduus1 Your head dey there...I hail you.😄
Wagbayi Omo iya mi hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 lolz do yo understand that heheh, that is Yoruba oh, heehhe you are now lost heheh
Me I'm not learning it oo, better come and teach us oo, after all you started it, lolz.
Hahaha, who he this one? Better go learn how to dey drink water in case you dey vex 😏.
Water 💦 ko water ni heheh 🤣🤣🤣
Now, it is that mysterious that I am now scared of. You can never be too sure in this Nigeria o
Haha, drinking water when angry even the Nigeria system is weak in that one, lolz.
Exactly...!
That your hotter than fire lyrics reminds me of that song, that year.
Anger is a part of man but there is a level one would get and anger would be far away from him or her.
Yeah...you are not wrong, I agree.
But that doesn't mean that it will cease to exist in that person's life.
No no, it doesn't mean. With maturity, one tends to overcome what makes him or her gets angry.
Your level of anger doesn't make you destroy things. Then, one can say it is an emotion that is manageable.
This is true...WEll you are not Wrong.
Kai... I love this! This is very true!
Yeah. We should avoid this "Do me I do you" syndrome.
You don't know that the new way of life now is pure Vawulence😎
But you know there are some fire that gets rekindled by water..!🤔
No be lie
Like pouring water into Lithium...is explosive o.
Hmmm....I can imagine
He who fights and runs away, lube to fight another day. It is only anger and ride that keeps you in a fight. An end that you do not know awaits.
I swear I no hear English, pls come again😀
Ahahah.
Pesin wet see fight and run an him get sense pass.
Okay na, I get you
What if there is no other day? And better still we won't see correct fil to watch na.
Ahahah. Get serious joor. Fighting makes one a fool as much as the other person.
Well, you are correct in the normal world we are.
You drink water when you're upset and it helps?😳 That's a first!
Maybe I should try it too😂
Hehehe naso me sef see am oh hehehehe 😂😂😂😂
Tor maybe it actually works o😂.
Seeiously, it is a therapy I learned some years ago. Water calms the nerve.
I’ll definitely try this and bring back my review😁
You should. But the best try is to avoid anger, not the therapy.
You see that too..? I was weak when I first saw it!
Water? Its strange because I no know wetin go make me remember water when angry, I'm learning new things bayi o
If you don ready to control your anger and you no wan scatter things, just remember water, that's all.
Everything go just coooooleee.
Ok, although I try not to let anything anger me now, I'll put this your method in mind.
Very well.
There was a time I tried this too and it worked. Water is such a powerful therapy for anger or temperament in general.
New knowledge found then
Devil's anointing 😂😂😂
I have heard people talk about taking water while angry but I think they do so to avoid voicing out ugly words.
Yeah. Sometimes, after a show if anger, you'd see there was no need to be angry in the first place.
And water makes you swallow it suppress rage which is the first point to anger.
Hmmmm....put water in your mouth... anyway it works for you.
I'm just imaging putting water in my mouth when I'm angry I might just swallow it and reply 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 expecially when the words need my reply.
It's not to put water in the mouth of but to drink it.
You take water break in a fight, rest for some seconds and continue the anger fight...😅
,🤣🤣🤣 it's the water therapy
Water therapy indeed..!!🤣
Omo your way of calming anger is funny😂😂. Like you drink water😂😂.
Yeah. That's my therapy.
Wow,that’s beautiful to hear😁🥺
You should try out too.
Abi oo, na to just drink water drop cup 😅... Taking deep breaths work sometimes but not everyone remembers to do that. Some kinds of rage are so infuriating that we blow up like a bomb unknowingly and end up taking regrettable actions... May we not experience that kind anger sha.
I also think walking away is the best option and it works for me too.
Happy weekend! ❤️🤗
Certainly. Walking away or taking a deep breath are therapies angry people could try out not to explode.
I like your method. But like I replied to @glorydee earlier...
As in clear your throat to answer the person more🤣🤣
Exactly, my point really.
Then you are not ready to tame the temperament. If one must apply the water therapy, he should be ready to follow the effect.
Very well then. Apart from anger issues here, I have heard about the tremendous things water does when utilized in therapy. I believe it won't be an exception here.
I want to specially appreciate @sam.hangout for allowing God use you to create this opportunity for us here in Naija. You know as they say, "no place like home" I feel at home here.
For this week talking about anger management.
In our day to day activities, we are prone to meet things to make us angry. But I see anger as a choice. You can decide to be angry or do otherwise.
But when one is already angry, it can be controlled in so many ways like:
Leave that environment.
Ignore the person involved for some time and come back to tackle the issue.
Don't talk at that moment, until when you are no more angry.
And lots more.
I invite @hivedeb, and @desiredlady to tell us how they manage their anger.
Hmm this is interesting, everyone has different views about anger. For me, it's more like a "reflex emotion" if that word even exists 😅. What I mean is, anger is just an emotion that springs up when triggered. I believe that staying angry is what's a choice.
I like your methods, they're very similar to mine and I think that's the best approach.
Happy weekend! ❤️🤗
That is right.
Thanks for adding your voice dear. I do appreciate.
It's my pleasure 😊
👏
Good to see you came home before me. I will participate, was just passing. Will come back to that sweet rice and stew this weekend. Don't forget to keep my chicken and cake, you know......
Hahaha 😄. Olonger. You too like good things. 🤗 You sure say no be me go come first. Maybe I will delay my own rice so that I go chop your own first. 👐 Happy Sunday sweet heart.
I gree say I get olonger, sha just keep my choppingsons.
Am on rice strike for your sake
You no feet. You must cook rice tomorrow. Infact, I won come weekend. See me for your gate oh! 😄😄😄
Hahahaha, i gerikwe nke mmanu?
I ga eri biawa
I am seeing and hearing rice and stew 🍲 here, please where is it happening oo 😂
Hahaha 😄. Is happening in your house. Tomorrow Sunday rice nah. See, make sure say you dm my own oh! 😂😂
Hahaha.
Noo
I need party rice
You never reach house....still passing cos I haven't seen your hand or is it just me?
Hahaha, I dey come
We are still graciously waiting for you, comrade..
Lol, I don show since ogbeni
Babe... passing by lolz
Come home abeg, we need you here mummy 😂
Hahaha, if you eat this mamas food eeeeh....
Am home already...wetin you cook?
Hahaha
Semo with bitterleaf soup 🍲
Abeg serve my own or make I serve myself?
Happy Sunday
Hmmmmmm your matter na hmmmm, you never see someone wey be say in main purpose na to discomfort you heheeh 😂😂😂 you go vex my sister and I love your remedy he be like say I go dey use am jejejeje
Na your papa born you. You be real naija pikin. Thanks dear. I love you.
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 Omo you get level naija is not the land of suegbe, na fighter full here oh heheheh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Good morning Naija pikin. I believe say you sleep well well. Doo. Make you just de jolly for Jesus. Hahaha 😄Hahaha 😄. @quduus1. You no go kill me with laughter 😂😂
Hehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 lolz 😂🤣🤣 I am not a killer oh, but I am a clown 🤡🤡🤡...
Because your name is adeze in Christ...
Heheh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 see you oppressing us with your name hehehe 🤣🤣🤣
First, what if it is in a moving car..?
But really it isn't easy. In a case where you are right and someone is already blabbing wrongly about you. There will be this high urge to prove yourself right o. Lowkey, when we meet someone who is usually mad angry, we know well to run away..🤣
My brother you are right. But you know that our people say that two people can't be mad at the same time.
If you get too angry with someone and you want to prove that you are right, that same person will still want to do all he can to prove you wrong. By this time the two of you are raising voice. How will people see? Even when you don't want to fight, you will end up fighting to prove your innocency.
Will you want to fight in the public? Hahaha 😄
Well, I believe this to an extent. But the people who say this are usually the older generation o. Our generation now ehn, a lot of people are mad together🤣😂
But many are working on themselves, especially in anger management.
Trmibot, you will not kill me with laugh. Hahaha 😄. Please don't join them to be mad oh before someone go break your head. 🙏
Thanks my Naija brother. Na your mama born you well. 💪
Nah.. I won't be mad at all, my dear.
I am sane right now.😁
I love your simple entry
Just hit the nail at the head
Nice one Ada 😊👍❤️
Thanks dear. You are a darling.
The task? Done and dusted!! It will definitely be a good thing to have leofinance logo listed on other platforms including design platforms, so we won't need to download or crop the logo everytime one needs it. @sam.hangout
I'm also highly honored to be tagged as an expected participant of this initiative.
And for this week's topic of discussion, I'll be right back......To start with, I must appreciate you @sam.hangout for this platform of knowledge because to me, It's a great platform for learning.
Hehehehe, please don't also forge the GitHub task
I'll do well to complete the task
Oaky bro
Hehehe you are welcome bro, this is a home for all feel at home bro
House of all 😁❤️
Hehehehe my brother, it is a house for all, asap drop your own
As in ehn, I dey wait 🥵.
Hehehe 🤣🤣 please let him land in piece na
Yes oo one love for all 💕.
Hehehe copy cat
Thank you oo 😏
E dey kanpe💪💓
Yes naw 🥰.
Awwn, see motivational speaker naw, nice words Foxy 👌❤️.
Hehehehe I learnt from the best my own love hope ❤️
I'm honored 🤲
Hehehe my love 😘 come over and watch over me heheh
Hahaha, I love that but please don't forget to come back oo so that I will nor come and find you 🤧.
😁🤲
I'll always be here for you ..
I go no where
Better oo, I don't like missing people too much but it's so bad that I was very tired yesterday and I had to rest 😞.
Eeyah... Pele dear.
Thank you so much dear 🥰
Wow, lots of nice update 👌
Proudly a naija hiver✅👌
Verified 😂👍 Thanks so much @sam.hangout for the good work you are doing here.
Okay let me go and do the needful 🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴
Hehehe 🤣🤣 see this old woman 😁😁😁 y na
Baby fox 😂🦊😉
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 you love Foxe's don't you???
Foxxxxxx😂😂😂😂😂
Allow me to make my entry in peace 🕊️🕊️🕊️
Hehehe did I stop you from entering hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣
As in ehn 😂
Hmm, why do you even like foxes that much?
Hehehehe who ??
Me or nkem??? Hehehe 🤣🤣🤣
So hope you are among this love network..
Eh what am I doing with my life?😌
Am I supposed to see this...?😑
Better baby Foxy 😂👶
Hehehe you get mouth
Na you get mouth oo, me I'm just learning from you 🥵
Hahaha, your momma na you dey call old woman abi?
Hehehe 🤣🤣🤣 she too old fashion abeg shift 🤨
Hahaha, that's why she is your mom naw, so you can teach her.
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 for where, nkem Sabi fashion like sth Else ahahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣
That guy has no respect for the elders
I still remember when fox was wearing diaper 👁️😉😂
As in ehn, he does not have any respect at all 😂😂.
Abi oo, those diapers days 😂😂.
😂😂😂😂
Seems he hasn't read this reply
Gentle trouble finder I am 🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴 @quduus1 show face here...you missed an interesting comment 😃
AH, I see violence is in the eyes of the beholder. 😂
You even tush it well... wearing diapers ..or running around naked.🚶♀
😂😂😂😂😂
Leave me oo 😂🚴🚴🚴🚴
I move
But why are you always on my neck? Huh?
You need a cane in your life ☺️😉
As in ehn, he is representing very well, I just hope we keep making him want to do more for us 🥰.
Together we can 👍🥰
Yes ma'am, team work is the dream work, hehe.
Talking about team work
Please see me on Whatsapp when you are free...we gat some brainstorming job to do 👍
Okay, I will Ma'am 😊
Oya o, we are waiting for you. We want to learn new ways to deal with anger because in this life wey we dey so, we know people go always make us vex.
Madam no vex o, i just wan ask weda u still dey vex?
😒🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️
thank God I am able to participate in this week's hangout, I missed ya 'all last week.
HOW DO I DEAL WITH ANGER?
I am an extrovert, so when I get angry it shows on my face if the person I am angry at is an outsider, I get so much angry, but i will try to control myself and then just put it out of my mind because i might not meet that person again, but when its someone i am close with, and if itr is something that i am not at fault at, i will fight o, there's no two way about it, but if its something that doesn't require me fighting i will shout at them, then leave there, cause if i keep it to myself, i wouldn't get sleep, cause i will be having a grudge against the person. that's how i deal o, i fight or talk it out, i cannot be pretending for what is am not.
@constanceitohan come and join me here
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣 you are very cool aswear, lolz 😂🤣🤣 you talk your mind and that is the end hehehehe 🤣🤣
I want to be like you mam
How is your daughter is she okay now???
It has been on my mind for some time
before nko, who will hold me
please o be like yourself
oh she is very fine now, thanks so much for checking o n her
Heheh 🤣🤣🤣 I want to be like boss woman hehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Okay that is very good to hear
you supose say boss man abi you wan turn bobrisky?😂
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 lolz bobrisky keh he risky ohhh I no want
Yes oo, it's good to voice out, you might just be surprised that the person you are angry at is not even aware of it.
The last time I asked her, she said her daughter is feeling better now 🥺.
Hehehe 🤣🤣 I no fit oh, I don't say it but some time off will make me better and dat is the end
I understand sha and it's okay but it should not be all the time.
Okay my love 😘
Yeah, I agree, this happens a lot.
Yes it does 😊
IF you want to be like her, that one mean say you go dey slap some big mama wey no respect their self because of vex o LOLOLOLO🤣
My sister can slap o🤣🤣🤣🤣
make I run o🏃♀
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 I rebuke am, I no do again dey your day my sister I go in peace
I love the fact that you know the type of person you are and it's really nice. I will advise that you try and stop fighting back, just tell the person why you and angry and try to forgive when they apologize. But I'd they don't apologize, I will advise you try your best to just walk away at that moment.
i try to do that, but they don't seem to want to listen. my sister I will try o, its easier said than done wen at that situation
I understand you, I've been in that situation before and I still experience it till date, I just keep trying.
It is not their fault entirely. We Nigerians have coconut heads!🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 chai o. thank God I am not a Nigerian 😁
Then where are you from? 😒
Ethiopia?🚶♀
This mama vex no be here o...
This mama don vex slap one older mama for my presence before, I shocked.. We dey learn sha.
Na why we dey here today, WE wan learn how to control our anger.😁
🙄🙄 that was in the past na, the spirit that control that girl doesn't control this woman now. I can only vex and rest. That's why I don't make friends and tend to stay away from people. Now I only fight with my sisters.🤪😀
LOLOLOL
Praiseeeeeee lord sombori ...Halleluyah....
Sorry o, wet in dey do you?🙄
Shey no be tesstimony?
Abi make I no praise God on your behalf? 😅
😒😑 I didn't see anyone holding the mic for testimony.. Or is it just me?
You came after we shared the grace na...Next time come early.. LOL
Well, is this a better thing? A testimony? Well, I only have a sister to fight with. You have sisters.WOW!
Wait first? This can't be true o. What if that old woman na...🤐? Make I no talk sha
😂😂No worry, I understand already LOL
Better o....Cos we can never be too sure.
😄
You fight or talk it out....
Like real fight?
Anyone my sister, anyone that fits the demand🤪
Are you sure you are an extrovert? Then, I don see a mentor 🙌
Low key, this your method for handling anger na long thing o. But I get it that at times you have to just say little but key things and then leave the area before the anger escalates.
Hmm , dey your dey o.
And yeah I know sometimes we gat to ignore, but it's always hard
No o, let me learn at thy humble feet.🙇♀
It can be hard truly but if we put deliberate effort into it, we will definitely come around o
No o. Please dey ur lane.
I guess so , but it can be hard you know?
Truly but it still does not mean it can not be tamed. You dig??
For next week topic
WILL YOU GO FOR AN ANDROID PHONE (SAMSUNG GALAXY Z FOLD 4) OR AN IPHONE(IPHONE 14)..
IPHONE has now come into the world to dominate the other phones, it has now turned into a trend and it's selling rate has increased quite a lot in the market nowadays and mostly nobody wants to use an Android phone but iphone..
But at the same time we have a large population of people who love android especially Samsung phones
Let us know what you want, your preference, do you prefer android phone to iphone or vice versa??
State why you like either of the two
And also if you had the money to buy both would you buy it or invest???
Let us know why you love your choice and if you can convince anyone to like your choice ....
@samostically , this is my suggestion for next week topic..
This is a really good topic for discussion, I will love to read the responses of others on it. Nice one Foxy, keep it coming 🥰.
Hehehe okay my love, na your love dey ginger me aswear 🤫🤣😂 if you gimme kiss aswear I fit go gaga
Foxxxxx👁️👁️👁️
What did you say?🤔🤔
City 🌆 peeps must hear this
Lolz
Heheh let them hear oh, I am here with my love 😘 hope
Lover boy
What God has joined together, let Nkem no put asunder oo 😂😂
@sam.hangout come and see oo, a wedding might happen through hive naija engagement 👏👏😂🥳
Awwn, you are making me feel emotional oo, please stop it 🥵
Haha, please go and tell them oo, in fact screenshot this, lolz.
Wow
Hope just approved this ✅✅😂
Let me rush then 🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴
Hehehehe I like am Abeg goooooo
I saw it too, mama.
Who is this one 🤨😏
I'm happy I can be a little source of motivation to you Foxy but you see that kiss, you will not get it because I don't want you to go gaga.
Nah..or yes! He can't handle it one bit. You try me😎
Hahaha, I won't try you 😅😅
Heheheh abi you smoke weed or what ???
She should kiss you hehehe 🤣🤣 you are up for Yaba hehe 😊😊😊
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 see this one again😏🤨
Hehehe, yes naw 🤧
Did I just see love? Bro, you have more than enough loves...abeg leave small for us na.
You can leave @hopestylist for me abeg😉
Hahaha, see problem that you want to cause I'm this hang out, me I'm going first oo, I will come back later 🏃♀️🏃♀️.
Nah, at least a fellow comrade suppose thing about hin followers na. Not to chop everything.
Eheheh okay mi amor, go and come back love you too much
Who are you brother boy you go collect oh heheheh 🤣
Collect wetin.. In fact, I will just assume comrade vayulence mode
This is a very good suggestion.
Speaking of phones though,....
Are you taking about Samsung or andriods generally...
I never use Samsung before, I never even use Iphone.
Hehehehe Samsung is an Android phone lolz, yeah but you should have preference you have heard of iphone and Samsung before and their features heheheh
Very nice fox
Your inspiration never ends
Weldon 👌👍
Heheh 🤣🤣🤣🤣 thank you sir
Who is Sir?
Is it still Nkem?
Oh my goodness 🤣
Foxxxxxxxxx??
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 accept it like that my oga heheeh 😂😂😂
Today I be your Oga, yesterday I be your mum, who knows wetin I go be tomorrow 😂
Bro, you want to set up a good fight of electronic faith and resurrect the anger we are trying to solve again.😄
Wow this is a nice topic😁
Okayyyyyy 😁😁.
Aswear 🤫🤫🤫 I mean am oh🔥🔥🔥
Hmm, okay oo, noted ✍️.
Here is my reply
I detach myself from the situation (person or whatever) that got me angry to calm myself...
The more I see the person or whatever at that moment, the more angrier I become.
This is how I effectively deal with the issue.
I.e if my mom, friend, siblings or anyone gets me angry to the extent that I'm beginning to shake, I excuse myself to avoid causing "yawa"....
Thanks for this platform everyone!
Heheheh you na simple guy oh wey you suppose don break head and bottles hejejej I no get mind oh hejejej just kidding....we share the same method my guy
Omo ... If I say make I scatter ground... Head fit roll 😂💔
Heheh 🤣🤣🤣 now you are talking 🤣🤣🤣🤣, break heads and bottle's Anyhow u want..
Violence is the new way of life, comrades!!
Head? Or HEADS? 🤣
As if your phone doesn't auto-correct...
Smh
Oh, auto-correct. I graciously understand your plight, comrade...!!
Autocorrect to the moon..!!
Bro, you sure say you be man like this? They get you angry and you begin to shake? To dance or what exactly?
But it is good you do excuse yourself before Olymu]pus falls!
The way you think amazes me sincerely!...💔
You dey feel me? Make I feel myself small 😎
It ain't easy..😁
You deserve something 😁
Oh my! Oya I am expecting it o, higher comrade...😭😁
😂😂😂
That's his personality
Hahaha
I love your method of handling this anger....let me copywrite it now😂
Omo... Nibo😂.
Sope Otilor...
Izz gone 🙏😁
Let’s get started❤️😋
Yooo what's up guys? It's been a while since I dropped by here 🙂❤️.
How do I deal with anger?
In short, I sleep. What? Haven't you tried it before? You should. It's the best medicine. If someone or something has really vexed you ehh, just go and sleep. Thank me later 😊.
Ciao. 👋🏾
Your method looks serious, funny but deep! Uhm, you sleep? Wow, I have never thought of that before sef
Omo sleep ke😂😂😂😂like you just go to sleep when angry😂
Done ✅
Happy weekend Sam! 🤗 Thanks for the tag.
@sam.hangout for the GitHub, I just created an account and reacted to the task.👌👍
My quontri fiffle, I hail unah ooo. Hope unah dey wellu wellu?
Am glad to be with you again.
@quduus1, you do well
Being angry is not a bad thing but what can make it look as if it's bad is the way you handle it.
Me when am angry or someone offends me, I tell the person and if he feels to argue i let him be cos I will not want to waste my time arguing.
If it hurts me so much I let my husband know tell continue with my life.
Omo yes it’s best to let people be at times when angry.
@niglys, come and show your face here too. I know you will enjoy the vibe in here.
Thanks to @sam.hangout for the iniatitive
Thanks for the invite ma😊
Yes Im flowing with the vibe already 😅
Hahaha, welcome
Thank you 🤗
Task done and completed✅
It's a nice weekend vibe @quduus1 🤗
I know right😁
Yes my dear 😄
Greetings My Hive Brethren! 🙌 I don finally land 🤩
It's another amazing weekend at Sam's hangout and here's a big shout out to Foxy @quduus1 ❤️ for suggesting this interesting topic 😊.
Anger is an emotion I simply detest! It feels like something is eating me deep inside. I know I can't avoid being angry but I can control it and choose not to stay angry. This is so that I don't end up taking regrettable actions. And here's what I do when I'm angry:
Firstly, I let that person know what I'm feeling. I used to hide it before but not anymore because it makes me feel restless. Sometimes, people unknowingly provoke us and they need to be told! 😒
Secondly, I walk away when I'm too furious and efforts to resolve the issue prove futile. Especially with elders or parents... Talking back at them would seem rude and disrespectful so I just let them talk, then walk away 🚶. This method no easy at all, it requires a great deal of self-discipline and restraint.
Lastly, I try to relax myself when I'm angry and don't want anybody to know. How do I relax? Well, I just take deep breaths, avoid stress, chop better food, drink water, listen to music, sleep or go for a walk outside 🙂.
To be honest, I get harsh. I fit scream if na bad network dey vex me. Walahi, nothing pisses me off like slow internet. If my family hears me scream at my phone they already know wetin dey sup 😂... For other severe reasons, I may just be speaking in harsh tones and squeezing my face but I no dey break anything biko 🤲. I no too get wahala 😂... And yeah like I mentioned earlier, I walk out too.
What's up @neckkyjane1548, @kushyzee61 and @jmis10164 😃... Welcome to @sam.hangout, na here Naija people dey gather for weekends like this oo. I'm inviting you guys to hop on this fun train, share your thoughts, engage and win the prizes 🤗❤️. @charlrific were art thou? 👀 😗
Dimma out! 🚀
Damn...I really haven't been active here👀
Thanks a lot for the tag @dimmablogs 😊.
Anger can really be an burdensome emotion and it can also be very uncomfortable when we permit it to take control of us.
Omo😂! This is actually very true. Nothing frustrates me more that slow network, especially when I'm trying to do something very important😩❗ Infact, I think it's my quickest way to serious anger. It requires a lot of patience and self-control to not run mad oo😂
You're welcome 😊. If you want, you can ask Sam to add you to the tags so you'll always be notified.
Yes oo, very uncomfortable indeed!
😅 Abi, you sef can relate... The thing is annoying mehn. If not for God I for don dey run mad 😂.
Everybody sha like food heeeeheee😂😂 mama talk say she go chop better food😂😂. Na only that part burst my bubbles e be like say na here my fellow food lovers Dey😂😂.
😂😅 Omo naso oo, nothing less. Once I just chop better food, the anger sef no fit dey again...
Haha, all my fellow foodies on hive 😂😁✌️
I see say you dey change dp😋@dimmablogs you dey hot yunno go like show me way 🤲🥺😂.
😂🌚 I just dey oo... Me sef dey find way 🥺🤲
Better, I was thinking of maybe you'd break a mirror or throw your laptop or phone away like the oyinbos do in movies. You'd just be getting ready your people to throw you out of the house then.🤣🤣
Lol na real life we dey so, how pesin go break phone and laptop because of anger... Maybe that one is for rich kids 😂
Exactly, rich kids o. I mean who does that..? Throw iPhone - $1200 dollars or smash it on the floor. Make I just lay my hand on that one that was smashed lasan.. I don blow be that o🤣
Well, I hope I am not too late today. Don't worry @sam.hangout did not forget to tag me, so I think a round of applause for him. 😁
First, do I get angry?🤔 Yes, I do. I am human, or what were you expecting..?🤣
And when I get angry at something or someone, it is how far the cause is ti the extent I get angry. At most, I vex out and make my anger known through my tone of voice. But on the low, I just go mute!! But deep down in me, I will be like if I pounce on you 🤣
Break things ke? This is Naija, not one oyinbo country o. Where they'll break laptops or tv, you dare not here! Who does that sef? Them go commot una teeth of you try that.🤣
So FYI I don't break things...it is either I talk or keep mute or just walk out. Sometimes, when I am being corrected for a not-so-cool thing by an older person maybe my parents, it is normal to be angry but I just shut my mouth - I do not even make a sound. But if na my younger sister, heaven go hear am... But in other cases where I know, I did the correct thing and I am being misjudged, most times, I either talk respectfully or walk out!!
I hereby invite @sherlockee to our naija engagement.. you can put out your view on the topic or better still engage massively. That will at least build your presence on Hive too!!
Thanks to @hopestylist , my life has been really busy and annoying. She helped me with d names and tags
You're welcome Sam, I'm glad I could be of assistance 🙏🥰.
Oh, so my love @hopestylist has been helping. No wonder I have been feeling it in my spirit😁. Way to go, champ!!
Lolz, please stop 😂😂. Thank you sha 🙏.
You are welcome, my love..😘
Smiles 🤭
To be honest God helps me deal with anger. By God's grace have that consciousness that we by default want to show say My own no good ooo , I dey Para ooo and all that.... and I have come to see that saying things like I get anger issues (even if you actually do to an extent) is because you are actually proud of it, and saying so emanates from that need to prove say You get weyrey.
As for the first question, if I notice that lost hold of myself and let anger get the best of me, I simply reach out to God to help me cos the truth is you can't stop your anger yourself, at least not as fast as you might need to calm down..... Sometimes it's just a silent prayer, other times I listen to music. Bad as e bad I play game, watch movie or gist with friends to in addition take my mind off the matter.
As for breaking of stuff, no be me and you...... Na so one craze guy for my compound last year use come dey ask me where he can fix his TV after damaging it's screen, alongside one or two other stuff in his house.
@Obaro come back o..... @Benii we are waiting..... @kierydearie i'll love to see you here wether late or early..... @Niglys come tell us some anger stories..... and @vheektorjay carry freshness and come and finish us, na your way
Hehehehe you na baba oh I respect your kind sir, man of God 🙏🙏🙏 I respect you guys lolz 😂🤣🤣🤣
That guy wey break tv na enemy of good things Lolz 😂🤣🤣 he needs the prayers more than you aswear 🤫🤣😂🤣😂🤣
😅😅😅😅 you don burst my ribs boss
Sir I no be buster oh, how I go Burst your ribs hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@quduus1 don kuku give this kain people name, hin talk say dem be demons, no be lie.
The saying is true, we can't for a second rule out the God factor in our lives. You sound like a gentle guy sef...Clap for yourself.
Amen o..... I'm a gentle guy 😅
You sure, abi na because I talk am LOL
It's because you have not seen me on white and white..... I dey be like dove
Ehn ehn...okay o
hehehe, that is crazy heheh 🤣🤣🤣🤣 lolz 😂🤣🤣 I am a man of God 🙏🙏 oh heehhe
Wow....you dey paraaa😂😂😂
Who no go paraa when someone annoy him or her.
Silent prayer, music 🎵🎶 and game, very cool 😎
Anger is an inherent emotion present in every human beinh but has detrimental effects when its not kept in check or mishandled.....Well said @stefanovah
Just like the guy you mentioned, he felt destroying a functional TV could restore his sanity and extinguish the feeling of anger he must have felt at that moment, unknown to him that he was only creating more problems for himself. The TV might have just been a physical object but this result can extend to relationship and even our mental well being..
Just like you've rightly pointed out, taking it to God in prayer is one practical and helpful way to correcting this issue. In addition, taking out practical steps like taking a walk, talking to a friend about the issue, listening to music, and even shedding one or two tears to pour out the pent up fume to avoid further surge will also help..
Make I drop my mic for here fess
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 you deserve some accolades
I no say you go like am na, when she don out God hehehehehe 😂😂😂😂 bad guy
I'm not a bad guy o 🙄
😀😀😀
Hehehehe you have indeed said something great and you need to chop knuckle...
Going to God in prayer and also working out,..
I want to ask you a question hehehe
Sure dear...
What's your question?
Hehehheeh don't mind me heheh it's just me pulling your legs hehehehe 🤣
You eehhh😂😂
Ma enipe 😏😁😁😁
I know your question..Or I guess.
Won't that work out just make your muscles getting ready for another round of tense anger moments?
Very well, that only works with oyinbos. Not in Africa especially Nigeria. Our anger issues no reach that energy level abeg. Things are costly.. Although, that is why it is necessary to learn how to contain our anger.
But I can bet that that guy that spoilt his TV has watched too much of oyinbo movies. Right, @stefanovah.
Its okay to pray to baba God and take steps too, maybe going for a break or walk or better still seeking the help of a therapist. But do Nigerians go for therapy?🤔😂
Omo no be American anything, the guy dey smoke everything, dey take anything takeable...... It is constant highness turning small small into madness
He dey smoke?? Na big wahala be that...
You know those things have made him high - to the extent that he probably thought he was not an African any more hence vexed his anger on his TV..🤣
Para man😂😂😂😁. I like you jhor 😂😂. Nothing bad,you go just learn not to Dey para much😂
No mind am hehehe
Lolz..... You didn't read what I wrote well
Better, I was already thinking from your picture that this man looks not like a regular Nigerian. Maybe he can break laptops, TVs when he is angry.🤣
Even our emotions know that this is Nigeria!!🤣 So it dares not do stupid un-Nigerian things..🤣
Lolz...... God abeg o
Ah, comrade say God abeg 🤣
Wow it's good being the first 💕💕❤️
You shouldn't have chanced me like that nau. I didn't see anybody here when I entered the room...Now I am angry, speaking of anger😠
Hehehe 🤣🤣🤣 I was here first and First come first served heheh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
No joor, Na chance you chance me.
Eheheh I don come her before you on your phone I be senior maan
You too like to dey put age for things, lolz.
Hehehe and if you see me I be small boy for real-life
No mind am
So sorry sweetie, don't worry next time you will be the first 🥰.
Heheh when I am here I will always be the first hehehehe 🤣🤣
That's so cool, no problem, that's really good.
Lolz, see these two funny dearies lolz 😂.
Hehehe abi na we dey fight for first position hehe 😊😊
Make ona enjoy oo, you guys are doing really well.
Hehehheeh you na our boss na, Mamie Richie, hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣
Hahaha, please don't be angry, just make sure to be a little faster and reduce the length of the responses too 😂.
Hehehe lolz it's impossicant my love. We are both Long writer
😂
Hehehehe yeah my dear, we go survive hehehehe 🤣🤣
Yes oo, we are survivors, hehehe.
Lolz..
Yes you both are. But please, what is the meaning of the word? 🙄
Hehehehe you Gerrit and which meaning oh heheh 🤣
What's the meaning of impossicant?
Maybe next time, I will come and say Hi, I don land oo
Then I will publish and go back to edit my comment LOLOLOL😆
Hahaha, that is a way, hehehe.
Yes it is, congratulations 🥰.
Abi na , this calls for celebration 🎉🎉🎉
Yes oo, please send me money let me go to the market, lolz.
Who is going to the market???? Hehehehrh
Me na, let me go and get some items to prepare food to celebrate your win.
Abi they don go to rehearsal ni hehehehehe 😂😂😂 please come oh I am here waiting for you guysHehehe where is @samostically, @merit.ahama @sholex94 ???
As in ehn, we still dey wait. Maybe na when the Comment don reach 600+ them to show, lolz.
Hehehehe aswear make dey come wit korope oh, I dey wait for families oh hehehehe 😂😂😂
Haha, lolz. Make we see wetin go happen when them come, hehehe.
😃😃
Oh, I see you stopped by earlier, hehehe.
600 small we wan make e reach 1k 😃
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣
Yes naw 😂
See him😏😂😂😂Drop comment jhor,I Dey wait😌😂
Okay ma... Your wish is my command 😃😃
Okay😂
Better oo, I see you now have a commander, lolz. @quduus1 come and see oo 😁
Lol just do as if you did not see it nah 😃
Abi oo, he own na to dey talk 😂😂
That's the goal, hehehe.
Maybe @merit.ahama is in the kitchen cooking, @samostically is in the parlor watching film and @sholex94 is in the garden playing ball.🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀
Am through playing football
Heheh 🤣🤣🤣 bad guy 🤣🤣🤣
After you sir fox 😃
Hehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 sholex is here oh great footballer hehe 😊😊😊
Lol... sorry have been in the other room 😃😃
Hehehehe bad commando hehehe
@pearlsuddy pls come here and say your mind
Awwn @pearlsuddy come here baby girl, I love your username by the way 🥰🥰.
She's coming I don go drag her come
Awwwn am here now, and thank you 😊
Yeah 💃💃, you are welcome dearie 😊😊
Thanks for inviting me to join this hangout.
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Awwwwwn, my darling 🥰
If I no love you, wetin I gain 🤣😂😂
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Abeg shift....let me love 💕 my love 💕
Haa!
Hahaha 😂😂😂 I wish engineer is here to see this love
😂😂😂
Maybe you can holla him
I should drop his phone number?
Hehehe I love you too hehehe 🤣🤣🤣
I smell jealousy 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣hope it's not from your direction.
Heheheh you get it done ✅
This your kinda love na forceful love oh🤣
Aswear you must love me back heheje
Why are you loving my love 💕?
Shift abeg
Hehehehe 🤣🤣 I don't share love heheh
Invitor
If I no invite, wetin I gain 🤣😝
Hehehehe see this old woman
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Well, for me am not the type to get angry easily but whenever I get angry it is always not good.
So what I will just do if it is not a situation I can avoid I would rather shout it out and let it of my mind. I always feel at ease whenever I pour out my mind to whom am angry at. I prefer it that way cause I don't like having grudges with anyone one, so if I shout at the person it will make me feel better and calm. And if I want to, I can apologise to the person later.
This is my own point of view.To start with, am saying thank you to @tresuree for inviting me to join the hangout. And i also appreciate @quduus1 for bringing up this topic.
Welcome darling,it’s nice having you here and I like the fact you said you like pouring out your emotions once and for all so things can be bygone.
Ohhh wow, you are here why does it seems like THIS is the first time I am seeing you
Wow really,it’s my first time seeing you too😊.
Hehehehe 🤣🤣 now we have jam oh hehehehe 😂😂😂
Abi😂😂😁😁 and it’s nice seeing you here😊.
Hehehehe same here, let me go and jam your post
Am a newbie here
You are welcome dear
Thank you my love 3
Okay nice meeting you aunty glory heheeh 😂😂😂
Cause this is my first time here. Hehehe
Okay we welcome you in Jesus name
Yeah sure, things will be better that way
Hehehe 🤣🤣🤣 I love your principles ohhh hehehe 🤣🤣🤣
Abi nah it's better than holding it in your mind nah
Heheh you are very correct my dear aunty glory hehehehe 🤣🤣
My people, I don land with my entry on this ANGER topic oo
Having read a lot of people's anger story, I will quickly share mine, but very simple...
Sincerely speaking, I understand that spoken words cannot be retrieved!
In as much as I will shout at my offender, I mind my words but it's just a way to express my feelings after which, I grab my mp3 player and tune some cool music 🎵, before you know it, I will be fine 👌
I hate to be angry for a long time, it deprives my inner peace and I so much value my peace and so , I make every effort to get away with my anger as soon as possible. **Also I try to call a good friend at that period , speaking about another issue helps me get relief so easily.
I don't break things oo but I can shout eehh 😂🤦🤦...hmmm, it will be as if heaven wants to loose, shouting to express my anger over what one did or said against me while minding my speeches...oops! I have said it before but this is just me.
How will you mind what you say when you're shouting 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Omo I hate shouting it scares me, it out me off balance.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Well, I mind....to a large extent!
Liar
👁️👁️👁️😂
You are a capital letter liar hehehehe 🤣🤣
Heheheh no mind her she no no weytin sh dey talk heheeh 😂😂 you dey vex you dey mind your language
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣he choke
Hehehe he must to choke oh heheehh
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Abeg shift, na your vex? Abi na your personality?.
Lolz
Heheheh see me see wahala oh
He be like say you don chop the morning na hehehe 🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣
I only chop bread 🍞 and beans
Omo I have been waiting for this comment😂😂😁😁. Mama talk say she go still shout at her offender😂 and that music part. E Dey work? Because lot of people Dey talk say music Dey calm anger😂😂
Heheheh no mind her oh, I know her well she no Sabi to dey vex hehehe 🤣🤣🤣 she can love for Africa 😂😂 if no be say she don Marry ni I for go their house hejejej
Aaaaah you for go her house na make you collect wotowoto from her husband😂😂😂
Hehehehe 🤣🤣 her husband na my oga na so I no fit chop in eye ohh hshsjejej I get mouth but I no get mind hehehe
Better ooo😂😂
Hehehehe I no dey pass my boundaries hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 you self Sabi good things hehe 😊😊😊
Which your Oga 😂😂
Eng uche is my boss
🤣🤣🤣
Make he come and see
Experience is the best teacher
Abi😂😂
Sure babe
He go collect 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Fox, I be human being nah...I dey vex oo, but it's rare ... before I vex, den know that the stuff pained me so much and I was accused wrongly or something 😂
But I dey vex jare... funny fox, come marry me join Engr Uche, lolz
Two husbands for me ..lol
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 I no like am oh, engr uche na nice man so I no wan fall in hand hehehe I will show him this chat.
I have screenshoted it
😂😂😂
Show him...go ahead 🤝😃😎
Yesooo 😂😂😂
I go shout but it's not a regular habit...e go teeeee before I vex....but anything wey go make me vex like that, haaa!... No really something tangible
Lolz
Hehehehe see old woman indeed, Omo the day you shout for me that day I go break bottle aswear 🤫
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Be getting ready because it will happen very soon
Lolz
Heheh 🤣🤣🤣 I can't wait please let it happen oh😂😥😁😁😁..
Me self get chin chin for head...
We go block our self sefini
Na wetin you wan hear be that 😂
Hehehe 🤣🤣 aswear 🤫🤣
This is also a best way, talking to a friend about things that are gonna make you happy. That works too. Hehehe
Sure...it works for me and I know it can work for many 👏😊👍
These questions remind me of when I was much younger. As the last born in my house, there was little I could do whenever anyone angered me. So whenever I was angry, I used to go inside my wardrobe. It's a built in wardrobe and I was portable in size. Sometimes I'd stay there for so long and even fall asleep. That hasn't changed much, I no longer stay in the wardrobe though 😂, now I just prefer to be by myself.
Anger can be very powerful and I especially hate it when emotions dictate my actions (except love sha😌😂). Now if anyone angers me, I just leave their vicinity and tell myself to deal with it. I've heard this is bad but I guess that's when it's recurring.
I avoid talking, especially to the person who angered me because I might get so dramatic 😂😂. When I'm angry, I speak grammar that's not in my vocabulary on a normal day so I can't successfully communicate that moment. And when I'm angry-hurt, attempting to talk can open the flood gates😂😂, so talking is not an option.
Depending on the magnitude of the offence, sometimes I call my friends and rant to them. I have a friend, she knows how to talk me out of my anger (I don't know how she does it), even times when I'm the unreasonable one, she knows how to bring my head down.
Sometimes, I just lay down, listen to music and just let peace wash over me
And when I feel sooo physical with the anger, I literally do push-ups 😂😂 or stretches or when I'm outside I just focus on a game on my phone, a violent game 😂🤣. This level of anger is very rare for me and I avoid it as much as possible.
And there are times when I'm just angry at life in general, I simply ask myself why I'm angry and if anger is my best option. That usually solves it, I am able to dismiss the anger very quickly.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣any anger that makes you speak grammar in this nija is a serious one🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I can just imagine how you will finish speaking your grammar someone will pick one word and turn it to Ur nickname.
Aswear you never see anger wey go make you dey stammer heheheh
It happens to me too, that is when you should avoid me cause e don dey go another level
Heheheh Omo I fear you oh heheh commot body no Join body if you join body you collect 🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you go collect.
Omo u be area oh
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 for real that's Nigeria for u ooo
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 I hope I never meet obnoxious people like that
Omo see grammarian na..... I'm shocked 😱😱 obnoxious....leme check my dictionary 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Stopeeet 😂😂🤣🤣
Omo so na your friend you Dey throw the anger on😁😂😂😂😂.that’s nice tho.
Heheheh abeg come follow me vex, you go speak English and Yoruba hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂 no o, e no bad reach how you talk am na 🤣🤣
Hehehehehe 😂😂😂 Lolz 😂🤣 they don get your password you never know anything LMAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣 thy don give you efo riro hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣 you don chop soup tire they don know your password heheeh 😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣😂😂 eweee, but if I say make I reset password, na who I wan follow talk?, Woo, make I lookaway jare 😂😂
Dealing with anger for me..
I either excuse myself or just play some good music.. especially worshipful ones that plugs my spirit to the most high...
Its possible I don't remember this Sha, but.. I m usually more careful and I try think am well before I talk. If I don't need to respond, I just keep mute.
If the anger lasts till evening.. I ll sleep early, make the sun no go down and I still dey vex, to avoid problems.
One part of the scripture that has helped me is
James 1:20
Omo, the day the Holy spirit wispered this to me, I just mellowed my anger and started laughing. I m glad I know more now. So I try as fast as possible to jump out .. but e dey hard sometime.
Lastly.. I walk off and then go back to hear the person out with the aim of settling it. I go back having prayed and I just trust that God will have that matter in control..and we all learn from our mistakes.
Matter wey Una never seat down talk how God wan take control am? I think prayer works when you both express yourself.
Well.. I pray Anyways.To God. He has the key to the heart of men.
Even before you sit to talk, I advice you pray to God if you believe in him.
I sure believe in God and I pray often.....I think maybe what we should pray about is to have a calm heart and a right words to say....God use us to accomplish things
Omo everybody sabi vex we just Dey calm down ni all thanks to God like you said. But some people sabi para sha😂😂
The idea of controlling your anger is a beautiful thing because it's a good way to avoid saying or doing something that you may later regret
And the best way to avoid regret is to keep from getting “heated up” in the first place. Of course, that is much easier said than done. But it can be done!
When I'm angry I'm usually very quit....I mean very quit that you would know that I'm angry.
Sometimes when someone gets me angry I quietly walk out of that place and person. Walking out doesn't mean o don't have what to say at the moment but walking out helps me to be in charge of the situation, it help me to feel relaxed and help me control my emotions because when I'm angry I getting really emotional.
Most times if I can't quietly leave the environment I just get occupied with things in the house. start to arrange and rearrange things.
I will arrange all my clothes, clean the bathroom and do work that on a normal day I wouldn't do just to take my mind off.
Here are few tips that can be helpful in managing anger.
*Get occupied with other things
*Eat balance diet and rest
When we control our anger, we can express our feelings in a positive way, a way that works for the benefit of everyone involved.
Omo me and you are the same in terms of controlling anger😁. For real,I wont even utter a word when I am angry,until I am relaxed😂.
We don become hive sisters like this so oh😁🤣
Abi😋😂I just followed you😊
Welcome to my space sis😍😍I hope we extend the friendship
I hope so too,thank you😊
You ar on point my dear, you need to leave the surrounding heheh 🤣🤣🤣
You understand ba
Heheh 🤣🤣 I understand pa🤕🤪🤪🤪
I am the silent person type when I am angry,I don’t like stress and don’t like anything stressing me. You get me angry? Or you want to,for real you are on your own because you will feel like I am not even present because the way I wont mind you or walk away from the situations that makes me get upset will amaze you😂.
I calm myself down by controlling my emotions,and saying some words to myself like “mercy calm down ooo you no say yunno get strength and yunno like stress” . One of the thing about me is I always avoid see finish😂and when someone tends to get me angry or when I am angry at a person,I don’t react at that very moment. It’s either I walk away or stay silent. People that are close to me knows that when I am silent then something is wrong🥲😂😂.
Hello pretties,@niglys @funshee @princessbusayo @zitalove you guys should have a weekend engagement with your fellow Nigerians😁
Taaaaaah you are old oh, see person wey you suppose don nack bottle for head make them come meet me hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Aaaaah this guy eeeeeh😂😂😂
Heheheh abi na, I no lie na hehehehehe 😂😂😂
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