To add to what you said, love is good oo but marriage without money inside will gradually reduce that love and then persistent disputes. So before any marriage, securing a job, is very important, it's that money that will maintain the marriage no matter how we pretend.

For instance, I request for pampers money and my husband says no money, milk, clothing, name it, food...manage this 3k, men I go vex in bitterness and the love will be on search mood🤩