I used to be a counsellor and it came up frequently and had no correlation with actual vocal quality.
As well as my own image.. that's even worse!
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I used to be a counsellor and it came up frequently and had no correlation with actual vocal quality.
As well as my own image.. that's even worse!
I used to run an online business. My shipper was a beautiful young lady. Stunning. However, she had such bad body dysmorphia that she literally covered the mirrors when she showered. It's strange how there are conventionally attractive people who hate their looks and unconventional-looking people who are quite comfortable with themselves.
I definitely fall in the unconventional category. I decided a long time ago that confidence was more important than looks. And kindness, to my way of thinking, anyhow, is more important than confidence. So, I flat out refuse to allow anyone to make me feel less than attractive, especially me. On a good day, of course.
After all, we are stuck with ourselves for life. We might as well be nice to those selves. That's how I see it, anyhow.