In this video, I expressed my opinion on a case where a man took his girlfriend on a date but she brought along 18 other ladies without informing him before hand and expects him to pay for all of them. The obvious happened and now she claims "nobody wants a broke nigga!".
It reflects that the relationship didn't begin on the basis of friendship and communication.
Bringing a third party along to a date that is meant to be for you and your partner is something I find uncomfortable, after all, it's meant to be your personal time together. Your partner is someone whose company you very much enjoy and would like to spend a lot of time with hence bringing a third party along simply reflects the opposite.
The concept of security issue is a very popular excuse but the fact remains that if you do not feel safe/comfortable going out alone with your partner then you shouldn't be in that relationship in the first place.
If in any case you intend to bring a third party, ladies please respect your partner by informing him beforehand, then let it be decided through communication and understanding.
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That's actually laughable. Those ladies not having sense so they can eat to their hearts content. 😂
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A date remains something of a romantic meeting between lovers/potential lovers, not this one these people are doing. Hahah
I found it funny too. I consider those ladies beggars.
But.. why should they be arguing? He should have just walked away. It's not so hard.
This behaviour shows that she only care about his money. Her friends are no better. Birds of a feather!
There should be room for respect and effective communication in a relationship. Her action simply shows that she doesn't respect him and she's saying him for what she intends to gain.
It's a shame.
You're right. She's after nothing but what she's to gain. Her friends came to eat to their heart's content too. 😄 🤣 😂
So not right. Disrespect at its finest.
I think girls do it on purpose. If it's someone they're interested in, it won't happen forget about security.
You're right. She's clearly not interested in him but in his money.
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That is totally wrong, how could you bring 18 friends to a date , I don’t think this is about respect,the lady didn’t love the guy,If I want to go for a date I won’t want any one to be there because I will always see anybody except my man as an intruder.
18 ladies !!! aah I am so sure she rented some of them or she packed them From one group , she really want to kill that guy and waste his money.
She didn’t love the guy at all she want to turn him into a maga and turn him to her atm machine,but some guys sha a lady will be showing them signals that they are not interested in them and they will be ignoring those signals am sure before taking the lady out for a date she would have been showing a signal that she’s not serious with him,I can’t really blame him on that bcus some ladies can pretend die.
I also feel the same way. 18 people is too much o. She must have hired them to come spend his money because I wonder how one person would be able to gather 18 different people to a date. I don't even have 5 people that can follow me out..
😄 🤣 😂
I completely agree!
I'm sorry but this has nothing to do with anything. If she's not interested in him then No is No. Nobody forced her into the relationship. Yet, it still gives her no reason to do this. It simply reflects that she's a gold digger.
Some Ladies are just naturally ignorant of the fact that a date is meant to be between two adults. Why would anyone in their right sense go to a date with 18 other friends (3 they say is a crowd) without mutual agreements. It is so disheartening how people relationships this days.
My definition of mental issues. Her action reflects zero respect for her man and zero love. She simply wants to have fun and move on.
These days people treat relationships as a means of extorting the other party.
You are absolutely right
I have been a victim of this couple of times and I really can relate to how awkward these things are. Some people don’t understand what going out on a date really means!
What did you do when it happened? You really should make them understand immediately that you don't appreciate such behaviours as it's inconvenient for you.
If it should be called a date then it should be you and your partner alone, bringing in a third party stops it from being called a date.
Now bringing along eighteen other ladies is beyond normal.
When it isn't a get together party.
I wonder myself o. When it's not a get together party. I wonder how they met each other.
Those ladies that followed her are completely shameless. I can't imagine being a lady and doing that kind of thing.
It shows her level of irresponsibility and willingness to extort him at the slightest opportunity.
Some ladies are shameless and they don't even know it.
She's definitely after his money. Ladies that are genuinely interested in their partners would guide their Man's inance n jealously and wouldn't want over spending because they'd basically trying to build something good together.
This behavioural pattern shows there's no future for the relationship.