Cuando hay que responder a lo Marilyn Monroe / When to respond Marilyn Monroe style

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When to respond Marilyn Monroe style

"Sex is part of nature, and I get along wonderfully with nature". Narilyn Monroe

At times you look a little bold in the answers you give, especially to the one who wants to intimidate you, then they even get scared. Or it just happens that you have that way of responding and only when the other feels invaded you realize it, but you don't get stuck with that impact and continue naturally, you don't even offer apologies.

For me, to apologize is to remove the blame, I have no way to help with that, the answers come out, they come out on their own without me putting much into it and the worst or the best thing is that they happen expontaneously. Without making them designed, acted or with performance, it is the best part of the other's reaction.

Hasn't it happened to you that they even get confused thinking that you are flirting?

"Happiness is within you, not next to anyone."Marilin Monroe

Well, no, it turns out that answering in a mischievous, flirtatious, insinuating way. It is also decisive, tenacious and intelligent. Smart enough to also let the other know that it's just an uncommon response.

The thing is that there are no rehearsals, I think it is a matter of security, of well behaved that emerges and comes a time that thrives and is part of your answers. It may happen in your innocence, but this kind of ways of answering are usually very daring for those who pretend your submission, I may be given more easily to the male sex, but today I am doing catharsis in writing as to ask and wish that they are given to me at all times.

However, there are those who pass for prudes or motolas, but I think it's fine to pass for daring and it's even fun, you don't even know that the judgment is that you were daring because it is typical of the way you handle yourself.

Marilyn Monroe was the most popular American actress for her erotic style. And that way of being, thinking and speaking that in those times did not make her conservative at all, of course she was not interested in appearing conservative or moderate, she simply had to live with that and that was her natural instinctive way of handling herself.

I tell you all this story because it happens to me and I think it is important to enhance the freedom of women to be and think as they really are, because many times the anxiety that someone else qualifies you sometimes annuls you.

So to questions like: When receiving a call, they ask: "What are you doing?

• What are you doing?
• And you answer: - nothing here boring... Then, the person loses attention.

What would a Marilyn-like answer be like? Something like: - Why do you ask, do you want to go out with me?

Yes, just like that, at once, without so many turns, I think you have to do these practices to see what comes out, no matter what happens, this world is so illusory that the best way to go through it is to live it as a laboratory, doing experiments and being surprised with the results.

Answering in this way may shake the other person's floor and he/she may feel so invaded that he/she tells you: "No way, what's wrong?

• No okay, what's wrong with you? I was just asking you...
• Answer then: - Ummm that's good because when they ask me that question, then I agree to go out and then they fall in love.

I love those answers, they come naturally to me, but I wish they would come to me at all times, and not only in relationships with the male, but also in challenging moments that I need some more ego. Hahaha

"Do not presume to have been the first in my heart, if you were not smart enough to be the last"

This reflection comes to me, because I have met very young girls, talking to me about ways of relating so little edifying, that maybe it has to do with my age, but it is time to put a little maturity and open windows with looks of brio, these girls I listen to them and I feel that strange feeling in which I see that they are letting themselves be intimidated and I think that enough of being submissive, I don't know if it is going too fast, but that pink tone and without concreteness, does not lead to anything or rather leaves empty spaces or you expect to leave, and for those who are more astute always gives reason to know that the other lacks the will to withstand your level of demand. Disney princess times, I think they do nothing good, they just leave you either in the waiting room or waiting for the walker at the train station.

"No woman should ever forget that she doesn't need anyone who doesn't need her." Marilyn Monroe.

It seems like a space of emancipation, but I'm also amazed at how many stay in the cuddle of when mom took care of us and we don't see a promising future or at least where I want to get to in about 3 to 5 years, as a short term measure. That's why I believe in living with intention, always with intention. Tell me what you are doing here, what is being offered to you and I will see if I can help you with that, only if I help myself.

On the other hand, that gallantry has to be maintained, until the right one arrives, so I consider that: I am alone, would stop being heard as: I am soliiiita, who has said that being with oneself is also not valid, that also has a marital status, that should say: Not Available and that it should read Not Available for those who do not concretize Available at the time it is necessary or I feel like it.

"A smart woman kisses, but does not love; she listens, but does not believe, and leaves before she is left."Marilyn Monroe.