hi everyone this doforlove I'm using this opportunity to welcome myself back to this great platform I have been off for a while now due to my busy schedule, but now I'm fully back to hive community where I have decided in my mind to become a very active member of this platform.
Today I would be talking on a topic I titled "is there a perfect marriage"?
because I have seen so many marriages out there that both couples are best of friends the way they play with each other the way dey do things. if not perfect but very close to perfection and I seen those that got married within few weeks both partners are already tired of each other due to their low level of tolerance, endurance, and lack of understanding.
so this is why I decided to ask my audience to share with me their own points of view.
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There is no perfect marriage in my opinion. There is only lasting marriage due to effective communication and understanding between couples who are willing to make things work.
You're right dear, because I keep asking myself this question often.
This is a topic I so much enjoy. I've been listening to a lot of marriage talks lately, almost like I'm preparing for mine. Lol. Truth is mo perfect marriage exists. No perfect couples too. The only thing I know that exists is perfect communication/understanding just as @beautifullyyou said above.
Just a matter of understanding, if both partners can understand the fact that they are brought up from different bar grounds and respect one another I believe there would be no problem.
This topic is what what used as a sermon during my sister's wedding engagement ceremony. And it was clearly stated that there is no perfect marriage. That's all I can say.
It is better the church start giving people the view of marriage or let say the ups and downs in marriage so as to prepare their mind towards the challenges that may arise later on.
Yes o. Couples need to understand that it is normal for arguments and disagreements to occur. But it should always end with communication which will dissolve it in no time. If not, nothing will work.
Conflict is normal, resolution should be normal as well.