This looks/ you look amazing! You are my favorite Spider(wo)man / Spideria!
I can also totally relate to this:
I wish I had another person filming me or doing photos of me while I create because doing them all alone is quite tiresome. I guess this is why a good loving boyfriend could come in handy if he would support me as a creative and truly understand my work and how much effort I put into my looks. Maybe in the future I'll have some of that, I am worthy of an awesome boyfriend => future husband I shall say because I am pretty awesome myself❤️😎
I too would love to have a supportive partner ( who just let me be the 'creative genius' that I can be, no questions asked haha ) and preferably one with a driver's license too ( but that is a whole different story )
I also think I could be that kind of boyfriend. A shame we live so far apart ;<)
Sending you a hug from Portugal! Keep being your awesome self and meanwhile I will do the same.
Hey my dear Vincent! 🤗Thanks a lot for noticing the beauty of the Spideria, I feel happy when other fellow artists appreciate my work! You're always kind!
When it comes to matters of love... Yes.. It is indeed a challenge to find someone just as creative or at least someone who just "gets you". I believe in the power of relationships and I think that we people are build to evolve and grow in a relationship, we are not meant to sit alone for the rest of our lives.
After my experience in romantic relationships I have found how important it is to heal before anything else. I have done some really poor decisions in regards to men and I have attracted wrong people, with a lot of trauma who have hurt me deeply. Now I realize that there is a reason why we attract some types of people. I needed healing myself. A thing now popped into my mind, a thought :Broken people will break you. Can you relate? I believe that being stuck in a toxic relationship has a single role: to show you that you need healing and power to walk away. Now I am single and I am not searching specifically for love. Although I have suffered and have been with men who cheated and were verbally and physically abusive, I do not believe all men are the same. I believe that healing myself will bring the right love in my life. I now believe that love just comes and flows naturally, without forcing it. I am proud that I managed to heal slowly and that I am making progress daily. The hardest part is to have compassion for those who have hurt you and to not hold a grudge. To understand that they are just broken, not healed and not spiritually awaken people. This is the place where I struggle and yet make progress. Having love and compassion for those who have hurt you. There is an enormous liberation after you reach this point. So I would say Vincent that love will come, it will just be easy and it will just flow, I am sure of it. For everybody, no matter where you are
Hugs from you alive NFT friend hahah🤗🙏
There's a lot of truth in your words and I can relate to most of it. I am also working on being the best version of me that I can be, knowing that it will bring me closer to attracting someone who is right for me. I also believe that two broken people can never be in a healthy and happy relationship. And talking about holding a grudge, a grudge is like poison, it hurts yourself even more than the one you're angry at. I don't hold grudges any longer.
Big hug!
It sounds like you are healing too, this is very good. Have a great weekend Vincent!
Definitely. My move to Portugal, in 2018 and quitting my job in 2016 have all been steps in my healing process, in a way. It's just that we don't learn how to heal ourselves. It's not exactly taught in school or by our parents ;<)
xx
Everything happens for a reason. Without the pain you would not be the Vincent that you are today
Everything happens for a reason. Without the pain you would not be the Vincent that you are today
♥️