What do you think though? Is it possible for someone to get over such immense fear?

Lol, yea...it is possible.Like what @kenechukwu97 said, your past experiences may have made your mind mold itself into the way it is now about relationships and commitment. It is also possible that you haven't experienced that but the you've seen what other people have experienced in shitty relationships that you subconsciously swore to never go through that.

It's understandable either way. But whatever may be the reason it's possible to get over such fear. You just have to unlearn the negative things you know about love and relearn that it isn't always like that.

From reading your post I think you sabotage your chances at actually being in a good relationship and I don't blame you for this. The first step to getting over your fear is to be open minded towards love and commitment. When you meet someone that genuinely makes you happy I'd like you to go for it and be mindful about not sabotaging yourself this time.

Try and forget the You just reminded me why I don't do Relationships that someone said to you, it won't be easy but try. If forgetting doesn't work, remind yourself of how awesome you are and the benefits a potential partner will gain from being with you and you can start moving on from that.

I'm not going to say that love doesn't have it's downsides lol, it sure does but in my experience the good outweighs the bad and it is definitely worth giving a shot. I hope you find someone that'll make you see this too.

Happy love hunting lol🤗
Thanks for sharing this on dreemport 🤍