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Hello good people, your friend John is saying Hi... wishing you all a great and fun-filled weekend with multiple blessing.

It's painful to know the truth but don't leave by it
Absolute power corrupt more absolutely
A mixture being can never represent reality.

While growing up, I learned from life and people of different backgrounds about what truly traumatized people, both young and old can simply be a victim of this.
And I will like to say that One of the biggest signs of childhood trauma is trying to convince the people who are hurting us to treat us well instead of walking away.

This behavior often stems from a deep fear of abandonment or rejection that was ingrained in us during childhood.
When we were young, the people who were supposed to care for us often didn’t, or their love and attention were conditional, tied to our behavior, our achievements, or our compliance.

So, we learned to adapt, constantly striving to gain their approval, even at the cost of our own well-being.

As adults, this pattern can show up in relationships where we find ourselves chasing validation, constantly negotiating for kindness, or trying to prove our worthiness.

We may think that if we try hard enough, if we just say the right thing or act in a certain way, we’ll finally get the love and respect we’ve been craving.
But in doing so, we deny ourselves the chance to set healthy boundaries, and we often stay stuck in toxic situations where we continue to be hurt.

Healing means understanding that no one has the right to make us prove our worth. Walking away isn’t a sign of weakness—it’s an act of strength and self-respect.

It’s about realizing that we deserve to be treated with dignity without having to beg for it.
The journey toward healing is about finding the courage to let go of the people who are hurting us, even if it feels terrifying.

Because when we do, we make space for healthier connections, where love and respect are mutual, and where our worth is never up for negotiation.
it’s time to choose yourself. ❤️ over and over again.
Self love is a sure survival code, activate yours now and stay safe from unnecessary disappointment.

He who's grateful for what he or she has today, will definitely have more tomorrow. Never stay or live life out of budget for a single minute or second.

Currently living my life by design, connected deeply to my true self, am not to be pitted but envied

Truly my life is beautiful and I'm living wisely.
After reading through this, you also have a choice to make regarding the fact that life is beautiful and simple but shouldn't be complicated for any reason.

You're reading from your handsome friend @johnpetra!!

Stay blessed and enjoy your weekend, while I'll be waiting for you out there at the comments section

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