Dear Sisters,
If you are living with your boyfriend without being married to him, doing household chores, and dressing like a couple, but he cheats on you, do not blame him, because you are cheating yourself already. You are compromising your values, integrity, and future.
Think about it. If he has not committed to marrying you, why sacrifice your self-worth? His infidelity should not surprise you. You deserve better. You are settling for less than what you are worth.
Pack your bags, return to your parents, and prioritize your well-being. Take time to reflect on what you want in life and what makes you happy. If the relationship does not favour you, reconsider.
Remember, your relationship should complement your life, not define it. Your worth is not tied to him; it is tied to who you are as a person. You are valuable, capable, and deserving of love and respect.
Do not lay a foundation that will haunt you tomorrow. Consider the long-term implications of your choices. Your future marriage deserves a strong foundation, built on trust, respect, and commitment.
You are not alone; many ladies have been through this route. But you have the power to break free, to choose differently. You can create a brighter future, one where you are valued, loved, and respected.
Take care of yourself, sister. You are worth it.
You can share your experience in the comment section if you have been through this.
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Very wise words indeed. Many times women make the mistake of making things too easy for gentlemen. But, sadly, it can also happen the other way around. When something is too easy, human beings tend not to value it.
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Great exposition.
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