Change or constant ?🤔💭💭

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Changes keep coming in the life of all of us. In every stage of our life, we get to see some changes. Our life never remains the same for a long time. Change has to happen in life and we cannot deny it even if we want to.
When we are small children, then the change in our life starts from there itself. First of all, the biggest change is that till the age of 2-3 years, we stay at home, our family members take good care of us, then after that the biggest change that comes in our life is that we start going to school, there are very few children who like to go to school, but most of the children are such that in the name of going to school they cry and create a lot of drama, but their family members send them to school no matter what they do.

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The biggest change starts from here because on one hand the children who were till now used to do whatever they want comfortably at home, play whenever they want, eat whenever they want, but now their life starts to change completely. Now at first they do not like to go to school at all because it takes a long time for them to adapt to that environment, nowadays even then schools have become much better and many new changes are made for the children but if we go back to a few years ago and look at the school, there were no special facilities for the children, due to which their mind could not get there and due to which they were not interested in going there and because of this irritability also used to come inside many children.

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After that if we see the second thing then that is the burden of studies, children do not understand studies at first , they do not like to study at all in the beginning, there is no interest on them for studies there. After that, children do not get much time for sports at all, because a lot of homework is given from the school as well, due to which in a way their freedom ends to a great extent.
Then after that there is a big change when the load of studies increases in them, all their hobbies also keep decreasing, they stop playing and there, they also reduce spending time with their family and enjoying with friends also reduced and these things increase with age and the person becomes lonely in a way.

Let me tell you an experience of mine, when I used to study in school, I did not like school much at that time and my friends also did not like much, at that time my friend circle used to be very big. Then as our classes increased, the burden of studies also kept coming on us and we started finding school not intresting. There is a desire of the thing that how can we pass 12th and after that we can have fun in life and we should explore more in our live.

Now gradually our classes increased and we reached in 12 and somehow after sometime our 12th exams were also completed.I still remember that day very well,as soon as I reached home after giving final exam, A thought came into my mind, I thought that i have lost all our friends because now our school was completed and after that we rarely make such a thing in which all our friends were talk together in group like we used to do in school and I am feeling very much sad. I started feeling very bad because my friend circle was shrinking now, all my friends were lagging behind each other and I really could not believe that what I used to yearn for so much, when my school is over, I will get it. It was hurting so much.

But it was a change that I had to accept because this change happens to many people in life and probably happens to every human being who has crossed this stage in his life. The change that comes after school life comes when you go to college life, if your college is near your home, then it is good, but if your college is far away from home, then In such a situation, again you get to see a new change in your life, you have to go away from your family members, you have to do all the things by yourself, along with this, you have to face many problems in moving to a new place, So as soon as these changes come in life, then after college life, change comes in our career life, if you have got a good job, then your life comes on track a little bit, but if you are having problems in getting a job even after that, changes are seen in our life because then we reach at that age where it is very important for us to get a job and it is also very important to prepare for our best, then in such a situation we have to do a lot of hardwork. Many times it also happens that we have to catch any new career line, then we get to see many such changes in our life.Then after getting a job we get married and then again after marriage we get to see many changes in our life and changes keep going as it is.

So somewhere with this thing I would say that change is a only constant thing in our life which has to happen whether you do something or not but changes happen in our life according to their own way.

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With this I draw a conclusion that whatever stage of life in we are and if there has been a change in that stage, then we start liking and loving the stage which is before that stage, we think that I wish we could live in previous stage. It would have been better if we had been there, I think that when we get used to something, then that thing is released from us because the new change is about to happen and this is also a truth of our life. That's why changes go along with us in our life and i would like to say according to my experience that we should accept the changes, I understand that we start loving old things but the change is also there in our life. It is necessary because our growth is due to this change.

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