The most beautiful gift a husband gives to his wife is time, attention, and love. Women desperately need constant attention. The thing that made her very happy was when the husband treated her very romantically, full of surprises and joy. Initially from ta'aruf (introductions), then proceed to Kabul's consent, Finally meeting in Jannah Allah. What a beautiful love story engraved in the history of every human life.
Marriage is a sign of piety in Allah ta'ala. Marriage brings together two different personalities into one unified whole. Putting together something that is haram becomes lawful. And marriage because God is the most Beautiful. Love for God. Because your husband / wife is a creature of God. He is not as ideal as you want, but you are there to perfect it is grateful that makes us happy. Not happy that makes us grateful.
Everything will be beautiful, If whatever is given the husband received the wife with a smile of gratitude that is not up to the marriage ark will not waver under any circumstances, to build a solid household foundation needed good morals from husband and or wife. If the wife is wrong there is the husband who guides. If the husband is wrong there is a wife who reminds. The waves are not always quiet, sometimes will give chaos, wind is not always a breeze, sometimes will come a big storm rumble. There needs to be cooperation between the captain and his navigator. So that the ship does not oscillate with the flow that is not clear.
Similarly husband and wife need cooperation in order to create sakinah mawaddah warahmah. Marriage is a true friendship. Our husband / wife is the closest person there is any time we need. Be a good friend to our spouse. Appreciate him, trust him, and love him. Because he is the one who will accompany each and every time of our lifetime in the world. And inshaAllah will continue in the afterlife. At first I did not know you but somehow the way God brings us together.
Somehow God's way of making our family. All I know is that you are the loveliest mate God has given me. To keep my breath stopped because God chose me. Thank you my beloved for God. Best Friend Forever. Like a pair of shoes, Different, there is a right one left. But it will not be useful if only one. Will not reach the destination. That's you and me. Look at those pigeons, Males and females. They are faithful to each other, like a husband / wife who must be faithful to his partner.
