The breakdown of a romantic relationship often begins with a loss of respect and trust, manifesting itself in arguments or physical conflicts that can lead to a breakup. Although it would be wise to negotiate the terms of separation, it is common for couples to avoid confronting reality, leaving loose ends that generate false expectations of reconciliation, causing emotional pain.
The most prudent thing would be for one of the two to take the decisive initiative to discuss the aspects on which both agree regarding the termination of the cohabitation agreement. However, it is likely, with a high probability, that they will not sincerely address the situation and will part ways without definitively resolving the end of the story. Each may feel that there is a pending wound that may be able to heal in the future, which, in my opinion, creates a false hope for reconciliation that emotionally affects both of them to different degrees.
Nowadays, few go to extremes for love as in the past. In my personal experience, distance and routine eroded our relationship until we each went our separate ways, without definitive closure. This lack of clarity left our love story unfinished, affecting our daughter and creating a new family context.
Our daughter found herself in a vulnerable situation, without the presence of her biological father. In his place is a man who is in a relationship with my ex-partner, and who has assumed the role of surrogate father. This man seeks to be recognized as the father of our daughter, taking advantage of the financial support he provides to both. All of this arises from not having ended a love relationship that didn't work out.
I acknowledge my guilt for not acting bravely and clearly, avoiding explaining to my daughter the events that led to this situation. It is time to put cowardice aside and prioritize the well-being of my family, taking advantage of every moment to build a full and meaningful life.