This is interesting story. In some cultures girls are afraid to lose their virginity because they are, then, considered bad, and no one trust them to accept them as their wife. And in other cultures, girls, if not having sex for some time, their self-esteem is affected. I think it depends on which culture or country you belong to. In Asian cultures, girls’ self-esteem is lowered if they have sex before getting married, according to a research.