Sounds like you still have a little "doubt." Step 3 after Identifying your desire and Give Your Desire Attention, is Allow it. "Allowing is simply the absence of negative vibration and doubt is a negative vibration. Allowing is the most important step in the Deliberate Attraction process." The doubt removing process is called "Allowing." This negative vibration dilutes and cancels the positive vibes. Allowing occurs in the absence of doubt. Hope that helps. I just finished the book yesterday, so I'm still learning it myself, but it has some good tips that I will test out.