Sorry for the delay in response and thank you for a detailed answer. We have found that the majority of the time the tantrums will typically wane on their own. The seldom times where one of them is a little ball of fire and brimstone, we let them have it out. step in after a few to calm them and repeat as needed.

We have been trying a lot of the essential oils also with success. It may take a minute or two for it to work but when it does our littles are calmer and more relaxed.

Love the posts! Thank you again!