As a person who takes care of his nephew, your approache to your daughter showed me a new and usefull perspective of parenting. Well job. And thanks @jerrybanfield
And also i want to say that; even if the sides are not on the same pages in an argument, when they realize they are still in same book , the argument could be solved in new chapter. and there wouldn't be ''my side'' and ''her side''.
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good article, thanks again