This was beautifully written & I appreciate you for sharing your perspective. I share a lot of your outlook in theory, but I struggle with it in practice.

I think my favorite quote from all this was:
"What you think of me is none of my business and what I think of you is none of your business either!" I truly love that & have been trying to live it, so I never have to get caught up living in someone else's head & assuming I can have their thoughts for them. It's a hard habit to break, but it sure makes life more peaceful!

Have you ever read any books by Byron Katie? So much of this reminds me of her work in the best way.

Best to you Jerry, I wish I was as able to be as open-hearted to others, especially in the face of criticism. I admire your emotional strength.