Arguments in married life is normal but if we put God as our mediator he will surely help us guiding our way to the right path.Another great post! @jerrybanfield.. My opinion for this :

If home is to be filled with joy and peace, each must learn and be willing to give oneself!

One important tool also is the way of submission of words to your spouse. Submission means mutual respect and support for the loved one, the willingness to understand and say, " Your interests are abovr my own, because I love you."

That's it, i just want to share mine thanks for opening this kind of topic.
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