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What if there are more options than controlling others? What if we could, as an example, say "Hey, let's all agree guns are bad and replace them for better tools for self-defense that can't easily be used offensively. Cool?" Anyone who disagrees would then be seen as a threat, someone who may intend to cause harm to others, just like if someone was working to build a bomb or a chemical weapon.

Will governments give them up too? I'll entertain the idea when they are willing to do the same.

That would be nice. I'd sure encourage it.

While we're at it, can we get rid of governments all together and their monopoly on the use of force and currency creation in a geographic region?

Yes, please. :)