Golf teaches your children patience, anger control and persistence

in #golf8 years ago (edited)

I remember vividly the first time i held a golf club in my hands it felt very odd. And then swinging it and hitting a small ball with it seemed close to impossible. And yet, i had seen professional golfers, like Tiger Woods and Thomas Bjørn play so elegantly on the telly, making it look so easy.

But golf is hard to learn and extremely difficult to master. It takes incredible patience, handling of your frustrations and training, training, training. And your game benefits from making long term plans and setting goals for success. It is an individualist game, it is always a competition against your own ambitions and image. Golf has the steepest and the longest learning curve of any mainstream sport or game as far as i am concerned.

My point is. These attributes of learning and playing golf are brilliant for teaching your children handling those exact emotional and physical traits. It develops your child's ability to handle emotions and deferring gratifications. It is simply a personality developing game that is also great fun, can be played with friends and family for developing social skills. It develops good manners and adhering to a certain etiquette and playing honest. The benefits are nearly endless.

Therefore i teach my daughter golf and we go hitting some balls on the driving range whenever she feels like it. So far we have gone 5 or 6 times and her swing and her patience has already improved notably. And she loves when she hits it in the sweet spot and drives 125 meters ... Then we do a high-five and she gets a "way to go" :-) ... It is a fantastic way to share sports with your children.

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Golf is such a great sport. I love to relax and compete at the same time, whether I am competing against myself from previous performances, or against friends in a 4-some. Great post!

Nice one. Good way to bond with your daughter. She looks happy. Keep it up. Good & attentive parenting is not easy now. Golf is a great game

How old is old enough to start golf? Mine's 5, but she can barely make it through a movie. She's great at most of the sports she tries, but she may have some milestones to go before she's ready for a patient sport that requires forethought and lots of practice.

My daughter is 8, but we tried once when she was 7. You know, Tiger Woods started when he was 2 yo or so, so i dont think there is any magical age. Just try it out. If she likes it great, let her do it in her tempo and let her discover the technique by giving a few hints to improve when she hits the emotional wall :-)

My 5 year old get so angry on the range. I think more time on the course is crucial

Yeah. Quite young to fully grasp the intricacies of a patient game like gulf. You doing great

I started playing Golf when I was 40 last year and it is helping me to become the best version of myself.