Receive The Man Of Your Dreams With These 3 Steps

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Do you desire a life partner that can meet you at your level?

Do you long for a fulfilling relationship with a partner who knows their worth and yours.  

Then none other than a Sovereign Man or God will do for you.

You will not settle for less.

If you long to be connected to someone that understands you without having to explain every detail, you want a Sovereign Man. 

If you want someone to support your dreams in ways that allow you to feel nourished, loved and uplifted, you want a God. 

If you want to share your life's adventures with a partner who brings joy and love to new situations, then you certainly want a man who has done his own inner work comparable to your own. 

I acknowledging that we all came into this world whole and complete, however life can be deceiving and lead us to believe we are less than magnificent. 

Here we begin to reclaim our wholeness, integrating our inner Sovereign Man to receive the Man of our dreams. 

Here we get to add value to ourselves to support our knowing of our wholeness. 

To do the work we must begin by looking at your untamed or unconscious desire to be with a Man and consciously address it with clarity and focus to avoid projecting your wounds upon the partner of your dreams, destroying the very thing you want most. a divine partnership; leaving you wanting and alone.

On one hand, this desire for a Beloved can bring more magic into your life or it can bring a certain amount of unbearable suffering.

To ensure your energies are clear enough to receive your Beloved, you get to do this radical ritual to prepare yourself for the arrival of him.

Make sure you have some time to do the initial rough draft of this activity. After you write everything out, it will become be an ongoing project that you’ll continue to refine as you gather more experience with this new lens of awareness.

Without further ado, let’s take a look at what you can do right now to call in and be ready to receive the man of your dreams. 

Manifestation Ritual:

In this ritual, we're going to be creating your inner masculine as a process of integration.  As humans, we embody both masculine and feminine energies that unite as one to express as a whole, complete and perfect being of light and love. 

Living in this world, we have grown separate from ourselves, others, and the planet. 

Now we begin to pull our selves together. 

Let's begin. 

Sit down in a comfortable place to write with a pen and paper.

1. Your going to write out the details of your dream man. 

Here are some guiding questions. 

• What does he look like? 
• What does he smell like?
• What does he sound like? 
• What does he feel like?
• Is his skin rough, or soft? 
• Does his voice sound gentle, caring, bold, or assertive? 
• How do you feel when he touches you? 
• What are his skills and talents?
• How does he respond to your anger?
• How does he respond to spontaneity?
• How does he show his love?
• How does he show his anger?
• What does his behavior say about him?
• What are his values?
• What is his personality like?

There are infinite questions you can begin to ask to identify your most divine image of a man, your inner masculine. 

Get creative. This is your world. You are so powerful. As you ask questions, you open up possibilities to receive the answers. 

The magic is not necessarily in the answering  all of these questions, it lies in asking them.

Trust me, all the answers will arrive in their due time through experience. 

2. Now begin to reflect on the characteristics of this man that you've created and go deeper. 

• What motivates your man to be the way he is? 
• Why is he this way? 
• What challenges has he gone through to get to where he is now? 
• Where does he need growth to expand into his best self? 
• What are his limitations? 
• How has his experience allowed him to show up in this way?
• What are his goals, visions for the world?

3. Look at the Man you've created. 

Begin to see him manifested as a whole and complete Man within your reach. He's standing right in front of you. See him. Visualize him and all the details of his life that show up in the way he loves you and the world. 

Next, I want you to begin relating characteristics to men that are currently in your life. Reflect on your dream man's qualities and see if they align with qualities of your father, brother, uncle, grandfather, ex- lover, current lover, the man behind the meat counter. 

Any and all men can be useful for this activity.

Here we are simply bringing awareness to ourselves and our choices. 

Below, I go into more detail describing how to fulfill these 3 steps. Feel free to continue reading and come back and answer these questions later when you have more context.

Inner Masculine Archetype

The relationship you create to your inner masculine is a separate entity in and of itself. From now on, we’ll consider the relationship to your inner masculine to be completely separate from your relationship to another person. 

It’s a relationship you’re creating that is with yourself.

No one outside of yourself can fulfill your every desire or make you happy. That’s your responsibility.  It’s important to identify your inner masculine so you can have a relationship with him without projecting your wounds upon the man of your dreams. You are whole and complete right now. 

I want you to pretend you are in a creative writing class, or you're making a screen play for a big movie. 

You’re going to create the man of your dreams. The only catch, is that this man isn’t outside of you.

He resides within you.

As you are making up this ideal, fictional man, observe the characteristics you apply and reflect them on the men in your life. Begin to recognize similarities and harshly question whether you want your inner man to really embody those characteristics.

For example, say that you begin to brainstorm and the image of a tall, handsome, brunette appears in your mind. He waits on you hand and foot. He treats you like the Goddess you are. Although, behind this altruism lies a deeper truth of fear. This man is actually a reflection of someone in your life and you recognize that this behavior stems from a lack of self worth. 

Knowing this is not the kind of altruism you desire to embody, you can now take this characteristic of altruism and back it up with a healthy sense of self worth and value so it comes from a place of wholeness. You are basically filling in the blanks to make undesirable aspects of this man desirable aspects.  

Conscious Choices vs Unconscious Choices

You want your inner masculine to embody behaviors that are driven from a place of love, not fear.

Your inner masculine should treat you like a Goddess because he treats himself like a God.

His self care matches that of your own.

Observing your character and connecting it to your real life relationships with men, will help you see yourself better and see others more clearly, allowing a man to show up however he does, without your judgement and fears playing out, ruining what could be the relationship of your dreams.

By doing this practice, your level of discernment will improve and your eyes will begin to see who is worthy of your attention and intimacy.

This is a process of looking at your unconscious choices and making conscious ones rather than letting the old stories continue to play out that ultimately perpetuate self sabotage.

Begin to notice the characteristics you choose from the people in your life and adjust the details to embody the most healthy view of the man of your dreams.

You get to write the script, so create your man as detailed as possible. Throughout this process, I want you to navigate through beliefs that you hold around the topics of sex, love, intimacy, and romantic relationships and make conscious choices about how you want to relate to these topics and how your man will relate to these topics as well.

This is your opportunity to root into yourself so deeply that your desire and knowing is unshakable.

Your focus will be dialed in to magnetize the man of your dreams.

A soul mate.

Nourish yourself with this work and receive the gift of a lifetime.

PS. Feel free to interchange Man, Woman, God, Goddess, for whatever fits you.

I love you all the same and respect and honor our differences ❤