You must feel uncomfortable and uncomfortable when your initially good relationship becomes a little disturbed by the attitude of a boyfriend who looks like you don't like you. Don't rush emotions when facing this, you can try to deal with it carefully in the following four ways.
- Talk to your girlfriend first
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The easiest way to prove if your partner doesn't like you is to look into his eyes when talking to you. Does he show forced expressions or piercing demon stares. If he shows both of them, you can immediately talk about that with your boyfriend.
Generally girlfriends will say that it's just your feelings, so don't get carried away by anger and anger. Try to believe what your girlfriend says while gathering evidence that the belief in a boyfriend who doesn't like you is true.
This proof can be a friend's friend who comes to you and to the point says his dislike for you. But while that doesn't happen, just think that expressions of dislikes and demons are still at the limit of Fairness.
- Think of possible girlfriend friends who are jealous of you
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Understanding jealousy here can vary. It could be that he likes your girlfriend, or because your boyfriend no longer has much time to hang out with him, and the last possibility is he is jealous of your relationship when he was single
The problem cannot be considered trivial if he is jealous because he likes your girlfriend, immediately communicate this with your girlfriend to get the right decision how to give understanding to your boyfriend.
As for the second and third reasons you and your girlfriend can work together to match them to someone, until later you can double the date. So, the reason for the second and third jealousies can be solved simultaneously.
- Maintain the good quality that is in you
Don't be affected to repay other people's crimes to you. The way to get revenge on a bad person is to do good to him. So, stay patient and do good to everyone, especially your girlfriend's friend. Such behavior also shows that you respect your girlfriend. It's not impossible he will love you more, right?
- Spending time with girlfriend friends
This activity is carried out with the aim that your girlfriend can see how you and your girlfriend are very serious in a relationship and show how happy you are and refute his bad assumptions about yourself, that you are not what he thinks.
If this still doesn't work, the thing you can do is patiently wait until finally he realizes that his actions are not right. Do not rush to decide the relationship because of discomfort with your boyfriend. Think about how your girlfriend is trying hard while maintaining peace between you and her friends.
That's four things you have to do to deal with a boyfriend who doesn't like you. I hope this usefull
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