Today I met a girl at my cousins home. Here something of Our conventions.....
Me: Sorry to say but I cant stop me to asked YOU some questions. Am I?
She: yaa ofcourse!
Me:It seems you Are just 15 or 16, Why should YOU married??
She:family pressure (simply reply)
Me: you wont fight?
She: 3 times I rejected my marriage because I want to educated atlest 5 years.
Me: ohh that means Forcefully your parents wanted you to marriage.?
She: When I say them that I dont wqnt to marry, they forces me very badly. And also one more thing.. I have a grandma. One day she comes infront of me and started crying.. And say.. You are only my grandchild. I wanted to give u 'kanyadan '. Now I am 80+ and going to die. So please dont say no, marry him.
Tears comes out of my eyes nonstop. I am not able to denied her. Because she is my grandmother. Thats why I married even I dont even met my upcoming husband.
Me: ohh thats the reason(I wanted to tell her too much but I stop my emotions and with smily face I say this)
Me: And tell me now how many members in your laws??
She:Including me there are 8 members.
Me: what you wear in your laws?
She: only saree!
Me: Why?? Why dont wear something else? You are just Little girl.
She: I tell my laws & husband that I wont able to handle this saree. Dad I want to wear like kurti. Dad simply reply.. No. Thats why I used to wear only saree.
Me.: ohh (I just feel helples). Dont feel bad.. Everyones has own destiny. You have too. Enjqoy your marriage life. Be happy always.(and then I came my home)
When I came back home my mind is totally blank. Why should only girls sacrifice?? She wanted to study, make carrier but what should she do now.. A housewife. May be she has many dreams. I feel very bad for her wanted to helped her.. Wanted to talk her parents & in laws. But I dont.. Feeling sorry.
"EDUCATED. YOUR GIRL LIKE YOUR BOY. ONE DAY SHE MADE YOU FEEL PROUD"