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Relationship of course each of us has its own relationships both at home or outside the home or in every human society who have aspects of life that are social.
When we talk about relationships, we must know in advance what is meant by the relationship or what is its function? Personally or my personal opinion that says a relationship is a state of mutual need for one another, even though in that relationship there are various situations such as a beneficial relationship or an unfavorable relationship to the point where each of these people has a situation of interaction with others. So the relationship between humans is the most important aspect of life because humans are social creatures which means that humans cannot live only with themselves and of course require relationships between other humans. So that all needs related to life are fulfilled by a relationship.
As stated above, each relationship itself has a negative thing or there is a positive relationship, so to achieve a positive relationship is how we do it so that each relationship does not have the negative impact that we have seen so far in our daily lives.
So in this case, based on the experience we have had so far with family and friends, I will share a few simple tips in living a relationship so that good relationships before breaking up into negative things. Follow the explanation below:
1. Be honest with each other
What we need to know is how to maintain this good relationship that was previously good, it will result in better conditions or made better, so there is no confusion and dissent in evaluating it. So honesty in a relationship is needed, both in the household or with other friends because having an honesty becomes a perfect trait in a relationship.
When every member of us has honesty then, by being honest with one another, trust will increase. When honesty has been applied in a relationship, never try to lie, because people who have trusted you will find it difficult to rebuild their trust if you have lied to your family or close friends.
2. Always provide solutions when something happens
Every relationship that we have fostered over the years certainly has a problem or a source of problems even with a few problems, so when that happens never silence, try to provide solutions for family or friends who are experiencing problems because it is really needed.
Someone certainly has a friend or someone closest to him. When we become friends or you have also become part of a relationship then you will act as a savior or a good listener then, you can also provide solutions to them according to your abilities. However, when you will provide a solution you also have to think it through carefully because if you provide a solution without thinking about it carefully it might be bad for them. Instead what happens is not solving the problem then you have created a new problem for them.
3. Never be selfish
Selfishness is one trait that is not well developed in a relationship, because this trait has destroyed many good relationships with family or fellow friends. There have been many examples seen in life around us, many households destroyed even the life of a country will be destroyed if the leader has this selfish nature.
Try not to be selfish because we live in a relationship not alone so patience and mutual understanding are needed between members in every relationship, especially for the leader of the relationship so they should not have this unkind nature like selfishness.