“We hardly ever make love anymore.”

“Our lovemaking seems like a chore for both of us.”

“Our sexual relationship seems flat and boring.”

“My wife/husband is rarely interested in me sexually.”

I often hear these complaints from my clients. Yet, some couples deeply enjoy their lovemaking with each other even in very long-term relationships. What are they doing differently than the complaining couples?

Having worked with thousands of couples for the last 44 years, I’d like to share with you what I’ve learned about what keeps passion alive... and what doesn’t.