It is sometimes dilemma how to eat this or that and I can imagine that a couple may have different opinion. The same thing happens for example when you are having breakfast such as sandwich with hands or with knife and forks. I believe because we live in society we try to follow the rules of good manner and this is good so. I like the story, it is almost like real life situation, I like the view of female and male and you captured that very well in your story.