It’s a hard mission, almost impossible sometimes…
We lost friends, we fight with family members, we fight with ourselves
It’s a conflict with society and yourself
Be feminist is tiring!
It’s seeing other “feminists” with wrong conduct
It’s lost ourselves in doubts, but always figure us out.
Be feminist is have self-knowledge
Or better, search for that each time more than before.
With the fight, we learn a lot
We learn how to select more our relationships and as consequence, we leave so much thing behind, many people now don’t suit, many loves don't fit anymore.
Many movies stop to please ourselves
And music…
We recreate ourselves.
Be feminist is reborn!
We figure out the world in a different way, we see the chauvinism in the small details
Pay more attention in de harass before unseen
We attack with such strength that we didn’t know that we had
We learn what pleases us
What chain us
What free us
We break ourselves and fix it so many times that is impossible to calculate
Be feminist is painful, I’ve already said.
But believe, it’s is necessary and tasty
Because life is that, a painful act but still happy and necessary
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I was wondering when feminists would start finding steemit, it's going to be amusing seeing how long they'll last in an uncensored environment.
Not very long if you're going to be a man-hating racist like most feminists are.
Well, I think your comment is full of hate, read what she wrote before talk about, I'm not seeing any hate in this post, only on your comment...
"We figure out the world in a different way, we see the chauvinism in the small details"
Yeah, while I'm not jumping to conclusions just yet, that sounds an awful lot like 'micro-agressions', I'll be watching out for people like this on here. By the way, I hate totalitarians, fascists and fanatics in equal measure, that's the only hate you'll get from me.
Are you with some problem ?
Yes, third wave feminism is a hateful and fanatical ideology.
Well, i think you don't understand nothing about what i wrote.
And about the sentence you pointed out... the chauvinist is a opression that is rooted in our society, so rooted that it pass unseen many times, that's why I said that being feminist in the small details, because we understand about the subject, we study and reflect daily.
If you are not capable to undestand that, I'm sorry.
Ah, so I'm supposed to stay silent to keep people happy instead of questioning the ideology they've chosen to follow am I? I'm sorry, but that's not how free speech works.
Also, I've hardly done anything at this point, but it's interesting and amusing how quickly you decided to jump to her defence :)
"It’s seeing other “feminists” with wrong conduct"
Also, really? Wrong conduct? This is another thing that made me question her, what's 'wrong conduct'? Surely if you're a feminist and care about gender equality there's no such thing as wrong conduct if you care about both genders as is so often talked about by mainstream feminists.
"he chauvinist is a opression that is rooted in our society, so rooted that it pass unseen many times"
No, I think that's called the patriarchy and you're trying to put your own spin on it as people do in order to make it more appealing.
Again, you are being hateful and generalizing, just READ before WRITE, people are different, if you don't agree with what's been said above, just don't talk about it, but if you wanna have an opposite opinion show where the text is being hateful, put some nice founded arguments in it...
" Surely if you're a feminist and care about gender equality there's no such thing as wrong conduct " what? wrong conduct is about people, it's when you attack someone without reason, there is nothing about gender equality...
Why do you say attack about questioning on the discussion site? Does it threaten to cause physical harm?
There is just physical harm in the world ?
I too wonder how they would do in an uncensored enviroment. I came to Steemit mostly running from their censorship.
the 3rd wave, and some others, are looking at the world through oppression colored glasses. they continually mistake the connections that we have with each other, that hold civilization together, for ties that bind or chains that hold us down. if i were hanging over a cliff, i would not see the chain as oppression, but as salvation. these 3rd wavers are deliberately wallowing in a victim mindset. they cannot be convinced of their error, but only allowed to find the truth, or not, themselves. they are full of hate, so that is all they see.
The only thing that ever made me question whether I could be a feminist was the mistaken idea that we live in a world built by men and for men, this is simply not true.
The desire to create a better world is never wrong, but the end doesn't justify the means. We can't create a better world based on a lie, while there may be some truth to feminism its fudamental couldn't be farther from the truth and I think that's why a lot of feminists end up acting in opposition to their teachings.
They don't want a better world for men because to them men are already fine, they have all this privilege, and it's women that need help reaching their level. This is why many feminists waste their days checking out guys to see what they can complain about not having because of their sex, spend their days looking for differences, but only when the differences validate the belief that men are better off.
Thinking men are better off just causes resentment, that's why the language often becomes hateful, and that's why most of the world believes feminists hate men.
Feminism is kind of a sect. A girl grows up, she experiences her first failures in the adult world, and voila here comes captain feminism and says " Don't blame your self. You suck at your career and personal relations not because you are useless, but because of patriarchy! If there was no patriarchy you would certainly succeed and become a princess." They buy this lie as a justification saving her self-appraisal. And the concept becomes important, cause to deny it, is to admit that she's a sucker. What they don't realize is that a man behaving the same way faces worse experience. A man failing a career doesn't have a chance to live at the account of his wife, a man who doesn't conform to his gender, faces the risk not only to be judged and mocked, but also to be beaten and killed.
Feminists also ignore the facts. The stats says that suicide rates are higher among men and men's life expectancy is shorter. In 40% of countries men are conscripted to the military slavery in violation of their basic rights to life and to freedom. No woman suffers that. The only feminist's response is victim blaming. The whole feminist movement is driven by misandry. Their envy fuels their social activities. The leaders of the movement don't care equality nor anybodies rights, but have other motivation. They need those useful idiots who'd help them to get money from the government for running their corrupted non-profits.
It is a cult in my opinion, yes.
The cult of the oppressor vs the oppressed.
If there is no oppressor there is no feminism.
There could be oppression, but if there is no oppressor, if there is no one to blame, then there is no feminism.
competent women almost never become or remain feminists. feminism is overwhelmingly a crutch for the weak.
true that
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