One month is nothing.

If you're feeling worried right now, you shouldn't.

You'll be a father in no time, and nothing else will matter.

I don't have a child, yet, but I'd suggest you a few things if it's ok.

My parents used that kind of parenting on me and my brothers... And we came out to be successful.

Just don't let your kid have everything that she wants.

If she wants to be successful and hardworking, she needs to work for everything he gets.

Otherwise, you'll just spoil him, and he won't leave your house until she's 40.

And if she does something good, reward her.

Pure psychology :)