Its heartbreaking, I know... I was fortunate enough that my grandma took custody of me. She took care of me for about 10 years. I don't really wanna go to deep on it, my mother had me at a young age and was not ready for the responsibility. She was around and she wasn't I guess... We are cool these days, I'm almost 30 now (in April) and took the chance and found my dad last year. He now lives in a diff country and we've met only once so far. Life is like a box of chocolates you never know what you're gonna get, unfortunately. I hope this resolves well for Mays and Victoria. God bless them both!