Discuss about the household, will not be separated from two elements, namely husband and wife. Many hopes and dreams are put in marital relationships married in the household. One of them I, as a wife who has hope and dreams of my household. This time I learned about the balance of the household through my parents,
Two things that help maintain the balance of the household are:
Know each other's obligations (husband and wife) which is a task God gives us.
Understanding the character of the couple, beginning with the realization of differences in male characters (husband) as a leader and women (wife) as responsible at home.
Three obligations of wife to husband
Compliance to the husband against things that do not violate the Shari'a (which is allowed), which will bring a useful response for the wife.
By maintaining the sight, stomach and genitalia of the husband
Meeting the biological needs of the husband (an exciting biological response, so pleasing to the husband), will be rewarded for us.Not doing anything except with the husband's permission and keeping his property in good management.
Six obligations of husband to wife
Intercourse the wife in a good way.
Provide a living (something that is needed in the wheel of life) in accordance with its ability.
Meet the biological needs of wives.
Decorate for wife.
Protection of his wife and family.
Child and family education.
Next on understanding the character of the couple, remembering my household journey with my husband who will approach the age of 7 years. Know each other's habits, sometimes crying, jealous, upset and sorrow, but we often laugh each other, happy, joking and happy. Nothing is perfect unless we are equally acting while learning to know each other's character. Still falling awake while performing roles in marriage.
As for the obligations of the wife, until now I am still in the learning and learning phase, hoping by hearing this study, a self-reminder to be the wife that should be.