Thank you! I am thankful this has reached a lot of people...mission accomplished. Bringing awareness was my goal.
I know it’s quite shocking. The hospital is a business and doctors don’t want to be there all day for 15+ hours to deliver a baby. There wouldn’t be such a high cesarean rate if this weren’t true. When I first got pregnant and before we knew about midwives in our area, I went in to speak to a doctor from another hospital. I asked her if she thought I could deliver our baby naturally. She then asks “has anyone in your family had a cesarean?” I said “yes both my mother and my sister.” She then looks at me up and down and says “well considering the women in your family has had them and looking at your frame and size I would say most likely it will be the same for you.” So just like that they already make you feel as if you can’t deliver a baby naturally. It’s all in the business. So many women go in there hopeful and end up leaving with a major surgery to have their babies. It’s really sad the lack of support there are for birthing mothers.
We are so glad we did our research and knew beforehand that we CAN have a Natural birth. We also knew no matter what we were not letting our babies out of our sight.
Thanks for your feedback and for reading~
it is really a business. I remember when I declined the the SSRI's offered by my doctor 3 years ago. He just said "If you say so". Never took medicine again, now self-employed, everyone is like "what the fuck" and nobody believed it.
They still think I am sick or something. Fuck this society. Fuck globalism, this whole world has become a business and everyone who does not own a big business is a damn customer. We ain't people anymore, we are customers.
I also remember when I was at the hospital because of my racing heart two weeks ago. Doctors didn't speak proper German and they were unfriendly as fuck asking me several times if I am taking steroids or other drugs even tho I said no.
They made me feel like this is all my fault, I was already stressed as fuck. After measuring my blood pressure he just shakes his head "Why is it so high". It was just 140.
Like I was about to die, all about trying to prescribe me beta-blockers. This fat motherfucker. Of course it was high, I came to that fucking hospital because of that lol.
People nowadays... braindead.
Wow! It’s irritating how they make patients feel that way. What ever happened to real diagnosis. Not just a let me look at you real quick and prescribe you what I think sounds good. I’m so glad our family doctor takes his time with us and speaks in regular people terms so we can understand his diagnosis and reasoning.
Real doctors are rare, nowadays they are usually salesman. I also remember the doc getting visited by medication sellers while 10 patients were waiting...
Just tell them you don't want meds then look into their face, always priceless.